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1/ @WillowCreekCC is approaching their 50th anniversary--so towards 5 full decades of multiple sexual predator clerics and never-ending Institutional Cowardice and Institutional Betrayal of victim-survivors: a thread (this thread is gonna get so. long. over the next 8 months)
Sam's Wondering retweeted
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Hi Dayspring Chapel team. May I ask a sincere question? Have you considered what message participating with the global leadership summit sends to victims of clergy sexual abuse and Institutional Betrayal?
26/ This has been a series of tweets quoting and commenting on the 2025 book "WIVE'S CHECKLIST", by Tabitha Curry, First Lady of Church Unlimited, Charlotte, North Carolina. You can buy the book at Amazon--it's print on demand.
25/ [sorry. just gotta say it again. Pastor Ray Curry has never specified whether the woman with whom he "infidelity" was a member of the church he was pastoring. Because if she was, not "infidelity". Rather, clergy sexual abuse of adults. He also hasn't said how old she was.]
24/ Y'all. There's a brief chapter in here from @TheRayCurryJr and I gotta tell ya, it's a doozy. He says he continued to financially support his wife and children during their separation due to his 'infidelity' BECAUSE she 'maintained her integrity'.
~"Pastor" Ray Curry, 2025
23/ "Practical Ways to Keep the Spark Alive:
*Keep yourself up , not just for your husband, but for your own confidence.
*Stay clean, moisturzed, and intentional about your appearance..."
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
#CleanMoisturizedIntentional
#RAmen
#TheMoisturizerIndustryThanksYou
22/ "No, this isn't an excuse for infidelity or betrayal. But it is a warning. A neglected husband becomes a vulnerable husband. A shut-down man is still a man with needs."
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
[Screams into the Void]
21/ "The Right Frequency Matters: Let's talk facts: Once a month is not enough.
Wives, intimacy is not optional...it's a covenant requirement."
Tabitha Curry, 2025
I think @sheilagregoire might have some things to say abou pastors' wives using this kind of language. #bimbw
20/ "Preparation Matters: Let's be real. Bonnet, scarf, rollers, oversized t-shirt, ash on the elbows...and then you wonder why he's not 'in the mood'?"
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
#EchoesOfMarkDriscoll
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19/ "let's go a little deeper...There are wives who, because their husbands are emotionally disconnencted or lack understanding in the bedroom, turn to self-pleasure for comfort...this is not God's way."
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
18/ "Chapter 12: Let's Talk about Intimacy & Purity"
tweeting quotes from Tabitha Curry's 2025 Book "Wive's Checklist"
As a note: Purity Culture IS Rape Culture.
17/ "Always keep your spouse in mind when telling your story. We never want our words to make him feel as though we haven't truly forgiven him or moved forward."
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
#NoPressure
16/ IMMEDIATELY after writing about Gaslighting, we get "Practical Ways to Respond with Sensitivity"
Let me just say: Nope. This is not okay. This is seriously fucked up advice, by my reckoning. Could the writer possibly make themselves any tinier? en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslig…
15/ "Sometimes a husband my downplay or deny something that's bothering him ... if a pattern arises where your feelings are consistently dismissed or your are made to feel 'crazy' for sensing something is wrong, his could be gaslighting."
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
#Gaslighting
14/ [While I'm doing asides, I'll just point out that Ray Curry Jr, who was ~22 years old at the time, has also never publicly specified the *age* of the woman with whom he "committed adultery"]
13/ [As a note, I've placed "committed adultery" in quotes, becasue Ray Curry Jr. has never publicly specified whether the woman with whom he "committed adultery" was a member of the church of which he was pastor, which would make it clergy sexual abuse, not adultery.]
12/ "Your husband may not always articulate what's bothering him, but his energy will shift and you can learn to notice it"
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
[Geez, y'all. This poor woman. =*( . Her pastor husband, by his own admission, "committed adultery" back in ~2008 ]
Sam's Wondering retweeted
11/ "As wives, one of the greatest gifts we can bring into our marriages is sensitivity-the ability to recognize the unspoken needs of our husbands. Sometimes, it isn't about what he says but about what he doesn't say"
~Tabitha Curry, 2025
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