the more a try to educate myself on autism the more a get like ‘hey wait a minute🧐’ followed by a quick ‘don’t have time for this rn🏃”
a need to read more on the history of comedy cos it’s always genuinely baffled me that its considered a legitimate career path. how can laughter be monetised ! and ethically at that ?
a do believe most male *comedians* wouldn’t receive even half the laughs had they cracked the same jokes yet not self identified as such. am defo biased tho, men are generally not that funny to me
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genital preference discourse is always a nuclear bomb because once side sees it as an identity and validity issue and the other side is only thinking about it purely in relation to actual sex between themselves and a hypothetical other
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realized I've been in one of those "I thought I was unsure yet about what I want but actually I am perfectly clear about my desire, I'm just scared and hiding it from myself" type of situations
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about how they’re actually just unloved and no one cares about them. it’s irresponsible. it’s mean. BPD is largely about what happens within you and your struggles and going “it’s everyone else” doesn’t solve for the hurt you feel or help you be in less pain.
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besides even the abuse apology angle I don’t think it’s good for people with BPD to see others saying “no but if they actually loved you you wouldn’t feel that way” bc I think that fails them. people with BPD shouldn’t have to have another argument thrown onto the pile
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incredibly concerning the amount of abuse apologism I’ve seen lately when it comes to talking about BPD with people arguing “well if the partner was good enough/actually cared about you then you wouldn’t split or have symptoms or ever feel abandoned and lash out”
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We shouldn't be mean to people who aren't academically smart but we absolutely have a right + responsibility to shame the intellectually incurious. The world is literally on fire because of anti-intellectualism
thank u 2 whichever higher power decided ma phone charger should break right after ma headphones + lighter ran out last night cos it encouraged me to Log Off n spend ma night reading n contemplating quietly. was delicious