As an Aside, To understand the world better, weigh both genders perspective on issues as this. What is the link between a broke woman and a well to do partner? What is the aversion for a broke man and finding acceptance from a woman that is neither independent nor semi independent. These are the issues. What we fail to address is how much self dependence can shape relationships and marriages faster than the over reliance over another person to guage support. No one anywhere is obligated to help you and your gender should not emotionally blackmail anyone into doing it. Go out there and work hard and become a person of value so that people can come for you. The calibre of people our societies have at the moment is neither ready made or struggling to get to the summit of greatness. Some of the broke women see themselves as the trophies for tommorow men whom through sweat and blood earned their bread. They basically just want to eat without adding any value to the other person's life and tag it relationship. Many even weaponize sex that is enjoyable between both parties as a valuable tool of demanding compliance to resolve their wants and not their needs. Till men and women see themselves as people of value and not one gender turning themselves into a commodity for a recurrent fee, we will continue to have a society that broke shames struggling men and uplifts women with no value or substance. Peace and love.