Nels✨ retweeted
Intelligent man + intelligent woman = “Too much analysis.” 😂
Intelligent man + not-so-intelligent woman = peaceful marriage.
Intelligent woman + not-so-intelligent man = surprisingly amazing marriage.
Not-so-intelligent man + not-so-intelligent woman = beautiful home, less stress. 😂
Sometimes, the more intelligent both partners are, the more they notice, question, analyze and overthink everything. Before you know it, a simple issue has become a full-blown court case. 🤣
Maybe marriage isn’t always about who is smarter. Sometimes, it’s about who knows when to let things slide, listen, forgive and choose peace. ❤️
Because too much intelligence without wisdom? Na problem you go dey see everywhere. 😂
Nels✨ retweeted
Sometimes I wonder if pastors realize how much power people give them. A pastor can influence someone’s marriage, finances, decisions and even how they see themselves.
That kind of influence should come with a lot of humility, honesty and accountability.
Sadly, a lot of pastors have used that influence for their own personal benefit. And that’s where I think we need to start asking difficult questions.
Nels✨ retweeted
There’s this lady I know. She was deeply in love with a man and they were already planning to get married.
But her church refused to support the marriage because the man wasn’t a member of their church.
Now she’s confused. She loves this man, but she also doesn’t want to go against her church.
If you were in her shoes, what would you do?
Nels✨ retweeted
One of the most important skills a man can develop in marriage is learning how to truly understand and explore his wife’s body, combined with open communication and the willingness to ask what makes her feel loved, safe, and pleasured.
When you consistently pay attention to her needs and do the things she genuinely enjoys, it creates unforgettable moments and deepens intimacy between you. Make this a regular part of your connection, not just an occasional effort.
Ignore this, and the marriage will eventually suffer.
