My friend who is 32 years old earns $4,800 CAD per month in Canada. Last year, he brought his wife and 2-year-old daughter over. Life was finally stable. Two months ago, his mother called him crying from Ibadan. “Your younger brother, Tunde, 28, has kidney failure. We need 12 Million Naira for transplant, or he will die.” My friend has only $19,000 CAD in savings. That's about 22 Million Naira. It's his entire life savings for his house deposit in Canada. His mother said: “If you don't bring this money, you have killed your brother. Don't forget we sold land to send you abroad.” His wife said: “If you send that money, we lose our house deposit, our daughter loses her future. And this will not end. After kidney, they will bring another problem. Send 4 Million Naira, not 12 Million.” My friend is confused. He told me: “Bro, if I don't pay, my brother dies and my village will say so my things on my head. they might even say I used him for rituals. If I pay everything, I destroy my wife and child's future here, and my wife said she will leave me.” If you were him, would you SEND the full 12 MILLION NAIRA to save your brother, or PROTECT your wife and child in Canada?