Some people are blessed with wonderful, supportive family. They are a living example for how the Christian body should live- helping one another, caring, loving selflessly. And it goes back and forth- grandparents blessing their children and grandchildren. Children and grandchildren blessing their parents. But not everyone has a Christian family, not all young families have any kind of example of how to go about things, and this is where the church really needs to be stepping in. A healthy church is one that sees members in its body that need to be invited over, need to be offered help with childcare or good old fashioned fellowship. And this isn't only for the young families. There are many elderly who are quite alone and they love for people to stop by for a quick visit (or sometimes a long visit depending upon the person 😂). I say all of that to say, if you are attending a church, you start being the difference. Lead by example, not by what someone has done for you, but from a spirit of service. Initiate getting together with others. Love your family well, and love your church family as well. Older folk, look at the number of posts of young people crying out because of the selfishness of their parents and step in. Younger folk, look for ways you can be serving those around you and be consciencious of the behavior of your children as you do so. Be very careful not to use people, but take time to develop relationships, even if it feels awkward at first. Know that you can build a family and community in Christ and it starts with Biblical love and selflessness.