
🏳️🌈🇨🇦 You probably want to follow my shame account instead: @discomfrtble
Toronto, Ontario
Joined March 2007
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📣 I’m hosting a 4-week online course in August, 𝐆𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐞. This will be an intimate, interactive group (less than 10 ppl) learning to reorient our relationships to toxic shame. Details here: discomfortable.net/events/#G…
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I so enjoyed being interviewed by @michaelwingsit about my coming out story for his wonderful podcast @reachingoutpod. I had some surprising realizations and the story really lays the foundation for my shame work. Check it out: podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcas…
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🎙The podcast is back!
In episode 92, I interview clinical psychologist Susan Campbell (@drsusan99) about emotional triggers and how to work with them in ourselves, our relationships, and groups. I wish they taught this in high school! Check it out here: discomfortable.net/susan-cam…
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.@zdarsky found an alternate ending to Frankenstein that changes EVERYTHING. tor.com/2016/03/22/chip-zdar…
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The idea that celestial objects exist within utterly immense cosmic structures is becoming inescapable.
... We may be only at the very beginning of our understanding. bit.ly/3dkcCyO
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Over the past 5 years, the Big Banks have enabled $2 billion per day - that’s $1.4 million per minute - of funding to fossil fuel companies, bringing us ever closer to planetary catastrophe.🔥
You can now check if your bank is amongst them - bank.green @BankGreen_
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I’ve been doing pwyc shame coaching through The Stoa for the last few weeks and it’s been very rewarding. I can impart so much more about managing shame in these one-on-one sessions using issues from the client’s actual life. If you’re curious, check out: thestoa.ca/coaches
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Wow, we've never seen a public conversation like this before: @peternlimberg (student of @jordanbpeterson) meets shame educator @bunt, and feels for the first time his personal complicity in the distributed trauma of homophobia.
youtube.com/watch?v=n--dM9V1…
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I'm teaching the science of perception today and one of my favorite examples is the dress.
Here is why night owls and early risers see the dress differently (from @Pascallisch)
slate.com/technology/2017/04…
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If you’re in Toronto, I’m doing a meetup about shame in December:
Getting Discomfortable: Let's Talk About Shame! meetup.com/discomfortable/ev… #Meetup #Toronto via @Meetup
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📢 New podcast out!
This week’s episode is about a shame symposium I attended in Sept by the @MenningerClinic featuring @BreneBrown, @HarrietLerner, and more.
Ironically, in the middle of this conference on shame there was a dramatic public shaming: discomfortable.net/callouts/
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In honour of #NationalPeriodDay, here’s one of my favourite talks from World Domination Summit this year, @nadyaokamoto on period poverty and period power: youtube.com/watch?v=gytCx9zn…
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📢 New episode of the podcast out today!
I look at the concept of “Microaggressions” with a few examples from my own life and unpack why I think “micro-stress” might be a less shaming way to frame this phenomenon: discomfortable.net/microaggr…
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Joker thinks it’s a critique of modern American society but actually it’s just a perfect product of that society. Like an iPhone that thinks it’s a Molotov Cocktail.
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📢 New episode of the podcast out today!
Two recent experiences with shame illustrated the difference between being ashamed and being shamed: discomfortable.net/shaming/
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📢 New episode of the podcast out today!
By popular demand (1 person), I look at the uncomfortable concept of privilege and the surprising ways it relates to both shame and actual wellbeing: discomfortable.net/privilege…
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📢 New podcast out today!
Being “annoying” isn’t a good enough reason not to like someone. In fact, it’s probably a sign that you actually don’t like yourself:
discomfortable.net/annoying-…









