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@myhandle's Navigation By Moonlight explored the feminine art of yin - setting up opportunities. Extend that logic to its natural counterpart - the art of yang is acting on opportunities - and you get a noble vision of what it means to be a man, that goes beyond just dating
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You have some ability to simulate seeing your bottlenecks by holding two different perspectives, but this gets greatly magnifed in closer relationships because you can hit your integration limit more.
This extra sight and motivation to expand it makes good relationships.
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Replying to @romyrennnn
You’re not supposed to love anyone more than yourself, I think. You’re just supposed to find someone you can categorize as “yourself” for the purpose of love (Do Not Do This if you hate yourself though)
a close relative of the philosophical zombie is the zombie who studies string theory and likes BRAAANES
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brane
Replying to @noa_tate_
just like there are philosophical zombies there are also cute zombies and horny zombies and punny zombies. many diverse flavors to celebrate!
Are there examples of the inverse? "I thought I was scared and hiding my desire from myself, but it turned out I actually didn't have that desire in the first place"?
Broke: "hey can you whisk the eggs for me?"
Bespoke: *whisk the eggs so badly he's compelled to grab them from your hands*
Of course someone named Holmes would know this move
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Replying to @TomWright165389
Almost every action can be a good opener if you pay attention to the feedback loops they make/change.
this is a hilarious tweet to read when you're in the middle of watching The Rehearsal season 2 because of YCSE
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There's something common to enjoyable musical improv, enjoyable sex, and good convos which is like: being present and immersed, noticing and following what feels good and curious, noticing when you're forcing/clenching and stopping doing that. Part of this is just "flow," but it feels like the relational component is important too -- having something outside yourself to attune to and play off of


























