Being a half-Asian male is basically a fate worse than death. 1) our own mothers generally hate Asian male looks 2) insane bullying only against Asian males, with Asian women joining in 3) own mothers hope for daughters 4) 99% of half Asian women get with wite men #Wasian #hapa

I just realized something, rather than get mad at my brother for his insane right wing views, like MAGA, I just realize the guy had no choice. Ever since we were children we were bombarded with constant micro aggressions and inflections that we should basically drop the Chinese side and simply be white American. There's nothing else to it, millions of small interactions over an entire lifetime can shape your socialized entity into something you have no control over. Luckily I snapped out of it but the fact that I was molded briefly into this kind of person after only 4 years in an American university really scares me. Like many hapas, my brain was unable to accept that I was still seen as Asian despite being told I should just identify as white, which is the very simple reason behind so many hapas being insecure and racist

this is kind of what I'm talking about. Feminism isn't real, most women just want a guy who looks good, it's only natural. This is the driving force behind passport broism. But then the mixed sons coming out thrust into this environment where nothing has changed, carrying the dad's chopped genes. Then conservative and yes, even Christian, WMAF couples expect their sons to be able to function in this environment, or better yet, somehow fix it. Fix what? At least Asian women are poaching the best looking Asian men, so that problem rarely carries over to monoracial Asians, at least the good looking ones. It's almost like natural selection is just moving past all of this Wasian stuff and people on all sides are getting more and more picky while the chopped men are whining about feminism and muh trad this and that

We watched this Korean film called "The Wailing" the other day and aside from me being pissed off that I never knew about this movie because Asian movies are basically hidden by the west, But that movie has a negative ending, just like many Korean films did before the K-Wave However, I prefer negative endings rooted in reality of loss and trauma and the negative outcomes of bad personal decisions rather than western culture that lies about everything and refuses to discuss real bad things that happen in the real world, My guess is that promoting this culture, vindicates people of personal responsibility for their insane degrees of narcissism and individualism (same as how Christianity tells people that you can be Jeffrey Dahmer and if you pray, you're forgiven), but in reality it just makes it easier for the people at the top to rob everyone blind and never be questioned about it, because "muh bootstraps"

People think we're all moving into this Kumbaya mixed race world but in reality it's already started, we see this "my mix is better than your mix" type bullshit even in casual conversation, people will make up endless amounts of bullshit to feel like they have a leg up on each other, it doesn't matter, if we were all the same race it would be something else entirely, I genuinely can't believe people have scammed the world into thinking people are naturally good and not petty as hell

The irony of westerners saying racism and toxic mixed marriages are "all in my head" is hilarious given that these are the same people who pump chemicals into their brains to function, fill their heads with nonsensical Hollywood fantasy, and believe in all forgiving tailor made God who forgives every single terrible thing they do, to get through the day

这对针对亚裔的种族主义描述得太精准了。我和妻子在 2025 年底回到了美国/加拿大。你会发现人们在和你说话时，会突然从兴高采烈变得完全沉默。甚至连海外亚裔也是如此。就好像他们完全停止了任何互动一样。我注意到，一些海外亚裔会随意地和白人打招呼，但当你走过或者和他们一起进电梯时，他们会突然停下手中的动作，陷入完全的沉默。黑人、白人等等，会从彼此热切交流的状态，瞬间转变为直接忽略你。 然后你会注意到那些毫不掩饰的凝视。比如在机场，三个互不相识、分开坐着的白人，全部用如此明显的敌意盯着我们看。还有在去超市的路上，有些男人会停下来盯着看，是真的停下来，转过整个身体盯着看。 最奇怪的是，我们在市场时，我妻子俏皮地问能不能买些苹果。一个白人女性竟然直接发出了嗤之以鼻的声音并翻了个白眼。我的猜测是，她心里在想：“瞧，亚裔女性得求她们的亚裔丈夫买苹果。” 然而，只有一些年长的黑人似乎不像其他人那样表现得那么自大和刻薄。其他亚裔夫妇似乎也是唯一显得友好的群体。而那些有白人伴侣的亚裔女性，甚至一些有白人伴侣的亚裔男性，也会对你表现出敌意。 另一件事是，我故意改变了外貌，让自己看起来像纯正的中国大陆人，因为我人生中将近 40% 的时间都在这里生活。我认为大多数混血男性可能无法承受被误认为是中国人而带来的那种露骨的种族主义。

Every time some non Asian guy with an Asian wife attacks me for what I'm saying, they just prove my point, that the worst guys on the planet to be raising half Asian sons, are the ones most likely to be raising them I should call it the Elliot Rodger Paradox

The average half Asian guy is more likely to have some Asian mom who is proud to not be with an Asian man, and a non Asian father who is proud that his "submissive Asian wife" chose him over an Asian man, yet the son is getting called all kinds of heinous racist slurs at school by other kids basically every day well into adulthood, Imagine being bullied for being Asian yet your own parents are representative of the same dynamic, that's basically what most hapas go through As warmongering as Obama was, there's a reason why there's never going to be a half Asian president, because even Obama wrote in his book that his mom was the one who taught him that being a black man was cool. He literally wrote that in his autobiography

I can't get over the fact that the famous collection of Islamic stories "1001 and Arabian Nights" starts off with two kings who find out their wives are cheating on them with slaves, this is a book that goes back ~800-1,300 years Learning that really opened my eyes to the reason behind wealthy men's sociopathy. I also really got me thinking about the foundations of organized religion as well. I thought the book was written in the 1800s but some white Orientalist author, but it's actually not