Duty sex discourse be like: Look, if I pay the bills and mow the lawn once a month and fix a leaky pipe once a year, that means my sexual needs must be met at a moment’s notice - no matter how she feels about it - because I'm fulfilling my duties But if she cooks, cleans, and takes care of the kids every day? Yeah, none of that stuff counts as fulfilling her duties Now don't get me wrong - being a SAHM is a full-time job and the most important job in the entire world, but childcare and cooking and cleaning only count as being done if she is also banging her husband on command If she's not banging her husband on command, it doesn't matter if the kids are fed and the house is clean She's not fulfilling her duties as a concub - I mean, uh, wife - and that's incredibly disrespectful to the family If she doesn't bang me on command, I will feel very unloved and unseen and that will destroy me as a man But if she says she doesn't feel loved or seen and would like a date or flowers once in a while, I'll just remind her that I pay the bills and her feelings are stupid and I don't care if it destroys her as a woman, women are already defective men anyway It's not my duty as her husband to make her feel loved and respected, but it is her sacred moral duty to make ME feel loved and respected And if she divorces me over ignoring her emotional needs, she's a petty, stupid POS destroying the family unit But if I divorce her over ignoring MY emotional needs, I'm blowing up our family for a noble cause Studies show that fatherless homes as a result of not enough duty sex have much better outcomes than other fatherless homes where the mom was just a silly ho who chose a guy that made her a single mother over some arbitrary nonsense Anyway, why do women get so upset when all I said was "have sex with your husband"? I'm not suggesting having sex when you don't want to, I'm just saying if you don't have sex when you don't want to you're a worthless waste of space who deserves to be a single mom and your kids deserve that, too After all, a family simply cannot function if the father doesn't feel respected and loved But a family can function just fine if the mother doesn't feel respected and loved because women are dumb and I don't love or respect them anyway because that would be homo