9-5 project manager , Building fashion brand ( REMARKEE) check us on IG and TikTok, wife and mum ❤️, Arsenal lover ❤️🤭..
Lagos, Nigeria
Joined December 2016
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Almighty. Remove our attachment to worldly things. Instead, make our hearts attached to You. Make us prioritise You. Keep our hearts pure and always obedient in Your Path, no matter what’s going on in our lives. Aameen.
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Lord , heal me from the memories that still change my mood when they cross my mind. 🤲🏽💗
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Walai marriage is a beautiful thing , partnership is a beautiful thing as well. Have you seen how couples who believe in each other’s dream do grow financially ? Most times ehn women knows how to turn two into four
Combining each other strength and weaknesses together
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I’ve noticed a pattern in marriages among immigrants in the UK, particularly those marriages that eventually break down.
Any bad behaviour you tolerate from your partner while you’re still in Nigeria is likely to become the major reasons for conflict or divorce when you move abroad.
The change in environment, the pressure of settling into a new country, and the realities of life abroad can expose problems that were already there. And more often than not, it’s the same behaviour you overlooked back home that eventually becomes the breaking point.
I’ve always held this opinion: relocation doesn’t break a marriage; it only exposes the bad marriage you bring into it.
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I’ve learned to stop overextending myself for people. Not everyone has the heart to appreciate the things you do for them. Sometimes, your genuine intentions are misunderstood, and what you do out of love is seen as a performance or as though you expect something in return. I’ve learned that not everyone will understand your heart, and that’s okay. Protecting your peace and knowing when to pull back is also important.
💯 Everyone wants to tell a story that makes them look good, but some decisions people make in marriage are genuinely upsetting. If he truly deceived his wife into returning to Nigeria, divorced her through a mere message, and removed her from his next of kin, then that is wickedness, especially if children are involved.
No matter what happens in a marriage, there should still be a level of respect, honesty, and humanity. If the marriage is no longer working, there are proper and dignified ways to end it without deliberately putting the other person through unnecessary pain.
Allah’s guidance on marriage repeatedly emphasizes kindness, justice, and mercy. Marriage is not just about love or staying together; it is also about how you treat someone when things fall apart. You cannot claim to uphold the values of Islam while disregarding the dignity and feelings of the person you once chose as your partner.
We may never know the full story, and both sides deserve to be heard. But if these allegations are true, no disagreement justifies treating someone without compassion. Even when love fades, kindness and justice should remain.
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When people’s marriages hit the rock or going through turbulent moment, don’t be quick to judge anyone or pick a side.
You were never there from the start.
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I think regardless of the ship , be an affirmative person because rn there is pandemic of people trying to cheat others. If you’re a gentle person like me that doesn’t like saying things when you’re being offended or facing discomfort, just run away abeg. People are wicked
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In today’s world you can’t afford to be a gentle soul , everyone is looking for a way to cheat you. Open your eyes , think with yourbrain , when being involved with someone and you have doubts then you should talk to third parties.Set boundaries regardless of the person involved
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Whoever knows that lady should better tell her the simple truth. Nobody can divorce you without your knowledge, except it’s forged. Get a lawyer to challenge it and seek appropriate redress including maintenance of the children. Except your children’s father is dead, it’s not your sole responsibility as a mother to take care of them, and provided you do not desire to weaponise the children to fight the man. That’s the only way to protect herself and the children.
Setting up camera to cry won’t solve the problem. Many people are just interested in the gist and pity party; and they will move on with their lives or to another gist that is trending.
Salam.