Stop trying to make your children happy all the time! ... You're making them unable to cope with life.

Boredom is often seen as something to avoid, but it can be incredibly beneficial for kids. We've started encouraging our 3-year-old to take 30-45 minutes for herself daily with no interruption from us to do anything she likes, and that can be "to do nothing!" During this time, she sees us focus on either reading or writing (no screens involved.) In the first few days, she would come to us after 10-15 minutes, but lately, she has been doing more than 30 minutes, and sometimes, all I see her doing is lying down on the couch and either singing to herself or doing nothing at all. When kids aren't constantly entertained by adults or engaged with screens, they have the space to: - Invent games and stories: This nurtures their imagination and storytelling skills. - Discover new interests: Kids might stumble upon new hobbies or passions without pre-planned activities. - Develop resilience: Figuring out how to entertain themselves helps build problem-solving skills and self-sufficiency. I'd love to hear about your experiences with your little ones!