If I slap you and your due diligence 😂 Asst. Pastor

Lmaoo! I need people to understand that people would make decisions you don’t like and as long as it has nothing to do with you, you’ll have to chin up and take it. It’s their choice to move seats, if they refuse, no sense in demonizing them. You also do not know why they have refused to move. Elevating the other person’s reasoning above the person refusing to move is wicked and entitled.

They’ll escort you out and ban you from returning.

😂😂😂 I actually feel guilt anytime I take time off

Reason 199999 you should relocate if you can .

I really do think y’all are prioritizing your feelings and emotions over the long term discipline of your child. You don’t have to spank or flog your children btw. It just seems to me that any form of discipline is quickly graded as abuse or some other issue. Maybe consider that you are allowing your adult feelings and discomfort come in the way of raising your child. In the end when they head out into the world, they’ll meet people who do not care and I hope they are equipped then to handle themselves.

Twins loading! 💃🏾

Long term is not the game. I sure don’t expect any parent to adopt spanking as a long term discipline plan. The options you have explained are not one size fits all, many factors determine these. Environmental, social, genetics, family etc. these things aren’t set in stone. In the end, the hope is that we all do right by them. Raise them to be good members of society and able to be the best version of themselves

I do not disagree with anything you’ve said. But you have also made my point: kids at a certain age can’t process why what they did was wrong but they sure understand consequences. How do you plan to teach a child that cannot understand why you’ve told them not to jump from the roof about regulation and why it is necessary to handle things better? Again in this scenario you are treating a child like an adult and imposing a version of how you would treat an adult on the child when they don’t even know why they can’t eat candy everyday. That’s why your mode of discipline has to change and evolve according to the age and development of the child.

You have answered the question; they don’t understand these things. Children do not have the mental capacity to understand and process right and wrong, neither do they have the complexity to understand the reasoning behind being told not to do a thing. They therefore look up to adults to provide that guidance and direction. But we seem to want to speak and negotiate with children who are incapable of understanding the complexity of the topic. All they know is I want to scream because I didn’t get what I want, never mind that what they want may be negative to them. Kids however respond to consequences, they associate actions to consequences. Now depending on the kid and family factors, consequences could differ. A kid may react well to being sent to their room as a consequence while some others don’t. I can’t say I fully support spanking, but I don’t see anything necessarily wrong with the Maraji video. Even more beautiful that the kid was open to still going to Mummy and hugging and talking about getting spanked. What I can say for sure is that the takes I’ve seen here are dangerous long term for any kid. Kids are not adults and shouldn’t be treated like adults. You do a kid grave injustice if there’s no discipline at home. Funny thing is when you go out, you can tell the difference between kids who are disciplined and those who aren’t.

Lol

My bro! Time flies. I appreciate this