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Bro, mine ain’t together but I will still die on the hill “marriage is the sweetest thing to happen between two sensible partners” I will marry and marry well.
Y’all can keep shouting women are this and that, I’m less concerned about that 😂.
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You can’t be a high-achieving career person and not have someone to do life with. One day, you’ll just wake up and lose your mind 😭😂.
Building a career has made me realize that you really need your own person. Someone to share the wins, the stress, the worries, and the little things with.
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To my dear brothers and sisters in Osun State, Governor Ademola Adeleke does not struggle with rent, hunger, insecurity and good life.
If you allow him impose TINUBU on you, you will suffer!
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I got off at Alaoji in Aba from Port Harcourt to head into town and saw a lady at the bus shelter with bus cards on display. I asked how much they were, and she said they were free, but I needed an Abia State Social Identification Number (ABSSIN) to get one.
She registered me in a minute and gave me a card. I asked to load ₦10,000 onto it since I would be moving around, but she said the maximum limit is ₦2,000, and each trip in town costs ₦150. It was some sanity.
The minibus taking me back to Aba was loading at Artillery Junction, Port Harcourt. It was meant to carry seven passengers, and three of us were already seated when a woman approached the door.
She was strikingly elegant in her attire and towered over most people around her. But just as she was about to enter, she pulled back. She was clearly afraid of boarding a “one chance” vehicle, or one of those buses where accomplices pose as passengers and gradually get down as unsuspecting passengers come in.
She looked carefully at our faces and clothes, perhaps trying to reassure herself that we were genuine passengers. Then she asked us directly if we were really passengers. I said nothing. From experience, I have learnt that trying too hard to convince someone in that situation can make them even more suspicious. Eventually, she made up her mind and joined us.
The driver then turned to another prospective passenger standing close enough to the bus for everyone to assume he wanted to board. The man had both hands tucked into his pockets and seemed to be hesitating.
The driver sternly told him to take his hands out of his pockets and stop standing around like an agbero. If he wanted to enter the bus, he should enter; otherwise, he should move away.
The man fired back just as fiercely, saying the driver had no right to tell him how to stand or what to do. Yet, even as he protested, he moved closer and eventually got into the bus.
When we finally set off, the driver almost immediately pulled into a filling station. Petrol was selling for ₦1,400 per litre.
One passenger asked sarcastically whether the President had not promised them a fuel “promo”.
He repeated the word for emphasis: “Promo.”
The joke was that government policy was now being spoken of like an offer from an exploitative commercial company, complete with terms and conditions.
“Our politicians are very wicked,” another passenger said. “They don’t even tell the President the truth about what is happening on the ground.”
From there, the anger travelled to Anambra State. Governor Charles Soludo became the next subject. Some passengers accused him of pandering to the President without, in their view, making any meaningful contribution to the wider interests of the Igbo.
One man then turned his anger towards Soludo’s son, making disparaging claims about his behaviour on social media, suggesting it was a retribution for his father's sins and saying, “That's why he is running mad on social media. Portable is even better than him.”
No one laughed.
The rain had just stopped, and the air around us was just cold. Outside, the sky was grey and heavy. Somehow, the clouds seemed to reflect the mood inside the bus- dull, tense and gloomy.
Proud Igbo girl retweeted
In fact, the quicker we get to the point of see finish, the better o. Let me see you as you are and let me see myself as I am around you. Let us get past the performances and the pressure to always say the right things or make the right impressions. Let me see how you handle conflict, disappointment, vulnerability, accountability and the less flattering parts of being human.
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bruh life is long. you need to learn how to sit through hard days and not do or say anything stupid.
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The day I get dressed for my first day at my new job, I’ll buy a cake on way back. This phase has tested me in so many ways.
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I’m glad I’ve de-centered it
Please judge me.
My life will not halt cause I made a mistake years ago.
Proud Igbo girl retweeted
I genuinely feel there are conversations you should ignore if your partners are also on this app.
Proud Igbo girl retweeted
wisdom is also knowing when someone’s countenance towards you has fallen and acting accordingly. it might save your life.
In your 20s & early 30s, fight for your life when it comes to friendships. Don’t believe the low effort narrative or that these relationships are transient/ not important. Life gets kinda crazy as you get older and those sisterhoods might be the only thing holding you together.
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Please carry your struggles with a touch of dignity. Venting doesn't always help. People treat you differently when they know too much information about you.
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Change your own story with your own labor.
No one is coming to save you unfortunately.


























