Attractive girls with low body counts have low body counts because they're experts at rejecting men, being annoying, playing hard to get If you're too autistic you perceive every rejection / flaking as "IT MEANS SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO ME, IT MEANS I AM NOT A CHAD" Of course, sometimes this is true. If you have to go on 8 dinner dates with some escort or some junky bitch that usually fucks people for 2 grams of cocaine - you are getting scammed, she is not attracted to you ))) BUT There are also girls who are more difficult, despite who pursues them. You don't have to see it as "SHE DOESN'T LIKE ME", sometimes it's not the case. They don't like anyone too much anyway. There's hot bitches on the market that have big egos, never had a crush, they're not groupies, they're not FANS OF CERTAIN MEN....they give 0 fucks about how you look, how much money you got. They start liking you IN TIME, after you fuck and hang out ))) There's a lot of nuances to this but one thing is clear: If she's a bullshit frog / some whore / some girl from TINDER / older bitch with one night stands under her belt / you meet her in some international location -> Waiting makes no sense In other circumstances, waiting makes sense. If you have good instincts you'll understand these distinctions.