Please don’t ever try a threesome. The first reason is:

REASONS SHE OPENS HER MIND TO YOU: 1. You listen without immediately judging. 2. You don’t use her vulnerabilities against her. 3. You make her feel heard, not analyzed. 4. You don’t rush her when she needs time. 5. You respect the things she tells you privately. 6. You can disagree without making her feel stupid. 7. You’re emotionally calm when she gets vulnerable. 8. You remember the little things she tells you. 9. She knows she doesn’t have to pretend around you. 10. She trusts that you’ll still respect her after seeing the parts she normally hides.

REASONS SHE MIGHT HAVE A HOE MINDSET: Not because of her clothes. Not because of her body. Not because of rumors. Look at the pattern: 1. She constantly needs attention from new men. 2. She keeps several romantic options open at once. 3. She treats commitment like a temporary arrangement. 4. She enjoys flirting even when she’s already committed. 5. She repeatedly crosses boundaries in relationships. 6. She needs constant sexual validation. 7. She gets bored quickly when the excitement disappears. 8. She hides conversations that she knows would hurt her partner. 9. She keeps returning to the same casual dating cycle. 10. She wants relationship benefits without relationship responsibility.