So why don’t these same rich guys give money to their own male friends they claim to be OG’s with and like?! If money truly means nothing to them and they genuinely have plenty of it, why is it so hard for them to help the guys around them?! Because me, I believe that when someone is truly generous, the people around them regardless of their gender should have stories to tell about their kindness. But from what I’ve seen, many men can be friends with rich guys for years and never experience that generousity. Yet, the same men will spend huge amounts of money on women just to impress them, buy them over or keep them in their lives. If I can spend money on useless things like phone and wig to impress a girl I want to date or am dating, but struggle to help a male friend who genuinely needs help, then perhaps I’m not acting based on just “having money”. So, when we call men mumu for spending money on women indiscriminately, it is said because one has to genuinely be a mumu to think that money can earn true unwavering loyalty of a woman, scaly with all the stories of infidelity and DnA all around us!!!