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Dad: 2 boys & twin girls. Author: Dad's Guide to Twins & Dad's Guide to Raising Twins. Maker of awesome twin t-shirts: https://xitter.cf/t.co/TeBI3pA18s

Austin, TX
Joined June 2009
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This week I’m releasing a brand new t-shirt design for twin dads like you. Twinadillos. As a Texan, armadillos are frequent visitors around here. I love the idea of an armored up parent ready for the day's challenges with their twins. Thus this shirt design was born:
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Get your shirt here: twintshirtcompany.com/produc… It makes a great gift!
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What was your first solo outing with the twins, and how did it go?
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Congratulations to Connor joining the twin dad club! He shares some very real insight into realities of caring for newborn twins:
The girls came home from the hospital over the weekend. I have spent the last few days nonstop changing nappies, washing bottles, feeding both every two hours, and doing almost nothing else. Having children is hard work. Even harder with two. You're up all night if they don't settle, trying to decipher what they're crying about while being desperate to stop it. You don't have enough hands. Sleep deprivation saps your legs of all strength. It's impossible to maintain a routine when they cluster feed. It's insane that we expect women to juggle a job alongside this, or surrender their children to daycare after a few weeks to go back to work. Hence why I haven't posted much recently. I'll try to get some video content out in the next few days, when I get a spare few hours to record and edit it. Otherwise, expect my output to drop for a week or two, as I adjust to the cumulative hours that caring for my wife and daughters takes each day. Thanks to everyone who sent their advice, well wishes, and gifts across various platforms — including Shannon, who knitted these hats and sent them all the way from Australia.
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Big thunderstorms here early this morning. It is always interesting to me to see which of my kids sleep through the storm and are like "oh, there was a storm?" and which ones are up with the first thunder clap.
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What’s one way your twins are total opposites that surprised you?
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Happy Halloween to my fellow twin parents! Since you'll get double the candy from trick or treating at your home, the parent tax of picking your choice of candy is totally allowed.
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Matching twin outfits for your kids: cute tradition or missed opportunity to let them be individuals? Where do you land, and has that changed as they’ve gotten older?
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Did you know these odds before you won the lottery that is twin parenting?
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Your chance of having twins is about 3%, but identical twins happen at a steady rate of about 1 in 285 pregnancies (independent of age, race, or family history). Fraternal twins, on the other hand, are heavily influenced by maternal age, family history, & fertility treatments
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Be honest, dads: When you found out you were having twins, what was your FIRST thought? Not the answer you gave your partner. The thought that actually went through your head!
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When one twin learns faster than the other, avoid the comparison trap. Don't say "Why can't you get this like your sister?" Praise effort, not just outcomes. "You stuck with that even when it was hard" builds resilience. How do you handle different learning paces in your house?
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Spooky season, but make it double the chaos. 🎃 Twin T-Shirt Company’s Halloween Collection is live! Parody tees for twin moms, twin dads, & the twins causing all the mischief. 🛒 Buy 2+ shirts = FREE US Shipping! 👇 Shop the collection:
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See entire Halloween Twin T-Shirt collection here: twintshirtcompany.com/collec…
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Expectant or current twin parents: trying to get twins to play independently on day one is a recipe for disaster. Instead, start small with just 5 minutes using a visual timer. Build up the habit gradually every few days! Full tips here: dadsguidetotwins.com/twins-p…
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Raising twins is hard work every single day, you’ve earned a break! Take 20% OFF all twin parent tees with code LABORDAY2026 👕👕 ⚡ Free shipping on 2+ shirts ⏰ Ends Monday at midnight Shop now ⬇️ twintshirtcompany.com/
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Fairness for twins does not mean identical outcomes: give both kids the same starting point and expectations, but let them end up with different decisions and habits. One of the joys of parenting twins is seeing just how different they can be.
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How do two aerospace engineers prepare for their SECOND set of twins? 🚀👶👶 In Episode 348, @RussReadsBooks shares how he & his wife use an engineering mindset to tackle identical twin boys, a singleton daughter, and fraternal twins on the way! Listen: dadsguidetotwins.com/podcast…
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Fair doesn't mean identical. Give your twins the same money tools (allowance, an app, a first paycheck talk) and let them build their own habits from there. New article on teaching twins about money: dadsguidetotwins.com/teachin…
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Tired of breaking up twin fights? Stop being a referee and become a coach. 🗣️👟 Introduce the "You Work It Out" rule. When they argue, tell them to come to you when they have a solution, then step back. Let them learn to negotiate!
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