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Communication is true commitment

We were honoured to receive Daddy and Mummy Bode Olojede the Regional Pastors of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, who we served under some years ago. Indeed, God’s testimony in a man’s life is sure. 🙌🏾

God is so so good Any witness in the house?

What was said 👌🏾

Singles, when God answers a prayer, sometimes the evidence comes with dimples. ❤️😂😍 🙂‍↔️🙂‍↔️

The story continues… SPIRITUALS 5 premieres Sunday, 25th October, exclusively on The Winlos YouTube channel. 🎬 Go watch previous episodes to quickly catch up. Brace yourself 🔥

Where are my dodo lovers?

Before you marry someone, make sure you understand the family you’re marrying into. Because whether we admit it or not, a lot of who we are today is a product of how we were raised. And sometimes, the things you consider normal are completely different from what your partner considers normal. So, beyond asking about their favourite food, love language, and financial goals, ask the uncomfortable questions. What are their family’s cultural values and expectations? What are their views on childbearing? What happens if you cannot have biological children? Are you both open to adoption? Is IVF an option? What does “normal delivery” mean to each of you? Are there expectations around childbirth that could put pressure on your partner? If you cannot have children, is a second wife an option in their family’s thinking? Would your partner ever consider it? How much influence will their parents and extended family have in your marriage? These conversations may be uncomfortable, but imagine discovering these differences only after you’ve said “I do.” You are not just marrying someone’s present reality; you need to understand the beliefs, values, and expectations that have shaped them. Love is important, but love alone will not answer questions you were both too afraid to ask. What is one question you believe every couple should discuss before marriage but people often avoid?

Ladies, your man is not your girlfriend. Stop expecting him to process every emotion the exact way you do.

Someone who never says “I’m sorry” is a problem, but someone who apologises for EVERYTHING is a problem as well. One refuses to take accountability. The other might be taking accountability for things that were never their fault in the first place. And sometimes, what looks like being humble is actually a fear of disappointing people, being misunderstood, or losing relationships. So, where do we draw the line between being accountable and being a people-pleaser?

Stop calling laziness “waiting on God.” If God has given you hands, legs, a brain and an opportunity, please move.

From my last tweet, it’s safe to say that some of us don’t take the time to understand what we’re reading or watching before responding to it. 😂 The conversation was never about a woman taking care of a man. It was about who should move when two people are about to get married. Imagine a woman who earns well, has a house provided by her company, and is already settled in a particular state. Her fiancé lives in another state and earns less than she does. The question is simple: Would he rather ask her to leave her job, forfeit the benefits she enjoys, and relocate to his state, or would he move to hers? Now, where exactly did I say the woman should provide for him? He can move, establish himself there, take up his responsibilities as a husband, and continue to provide for his family. Moving to where your wife is does not automatically mean she is taking care of you. Relocating is not the same as being dependent. The conversation is about making a practical decision as a couple. Why should someone abandon a good job, a comfortable living arrangement, and valuable opportunities simply because the other person is a man? Is it ego? Is it fear of what people will say? Or is it the assumption that a woman must always be the one to make the sacrifice? Sometimes, we are so busy defending traditional expectations that we forget to ask what actually makes sense for the people involved. The question was never who should provide. It was who should move. Please, let’s learn to understand the conversation before responding to it.

Do not lose a good woman because of this