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Most men lose women for one reason.
They lose themselves first.
Frame is not confidence or money.
Frame is sovereignty.
I write about power, attraction, and social dynamics without moral fluff.
substack.com/@ojframe?r=1ok…
You can list your non-negotiables for a woman.
Then you meet a woman that you are extremely attracted to.
Suddenly, your standards drop.
Why?
You don’t have the willingness to endure the consequences of enforcing them.
OJ retweeted
There's zero reason for the modern man to have misplaced priorities in this social media age.
He is fortunate enough to live in an era where, on practically every corner of social media, he encounters men and examples that reinforce one lesson: there is nothing more rewarding, nothing more deserving of his priorities, than making it in life. He will never miss the silent instruction: focus on your dreams, not love.
He will hear it in Don Jazzy's Instagram comment section, in videos like this one, where Pretty Mike publicly commands a woman to turn her yansh and she gladly obliges; on the social media pages of the rich and famous, where women - the very vessels from which he seeks love - express the primacy of survival in male-female dynamics and display little interest in love itself.
Then the modern man, if he is not foolish, will begin to understand that his first, second, and third priorities should be to pursue his dreams and succeed in life.
Not to fall in love with the female human species.
Because, for as long as the embodiment of the love he seeks is a female human, and for as long as this species as existing primarily in forms that are poor, greedy, solipsistic, and chaotic, he will see no path to succeeding in the adventure of loving one.
And so, his best option is to prioritise his dreams. If the divine is with him and fortune finds him, women will come to him.
And when they do, they will be obedient in their interactions with him.
Just like the woman in this video is obedient to the command of a pretty Mike, a made man.
I really wanted this girl.
But she didn’t want the same thing
I didn’t pretend she did.
I didn’t pursue her regardless.
I acknowledged that I wanted her, understood what that desire did to me and I responded to it.
This is Agency.
Taller than her
Richer than her
Smarter than her
Stronger than her
Offer more value than her
More competent than her
Better problem solver than her
An all round better human being than her
Yet you pedastalise her, simp for her and apologise for peace to reign.
Fascinating
RT @jollygoodlyfe: bc he thinks he is a simp
basically that sentence programmed him to be a simps even if he was a chad a second ago
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OJ retweeted
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I.e they could be interpreted differently if not applied appropriately towards sexual intent.
Rizz Lines are the fastest way to communicate sexual and romantic intent as a stranger.
The problem with rizz lines is that they are shortcuts.
Context-blind shortcuts.
Instead of asking:
"How do I detach from women so they cannot control me?"
Ask:
"Why has my relationship with women acquired so much power over my internal state and the direction of my life?"
This changes your entire trajectory.
One of my homegirls lost her virginity back in March.
She got into a relationship in May.
I asked her, “why she has refused sex with her man”.
Her reply:
“I know he needs it but sex is for my husband”
Women only withhold sex from guys they are not attracted to.
OJ retweeted
getting over her means getting over your weaknesses
that she showed you
by getting her back now
you cheated the system
she took you back like you are
so you don’t have to change
learned that the hard way












