aisyah retweeted
Bundan 5 yıl sonra evlisin. İstediğin eve sahipsin. İyi bir işin var. Çocukların uyuyor. Sen ve eşin koltukta oturmuş sohbet ediyorsunuz. Dışarıda yağmur yağıyor ve yarın cumartesi.
aisyah retweeted
As much as I wanted it to be you, you showed me in so many ways that you didn’t want it to be me. And I think the hardest part is accepting that I can’t love someone into choosing me. I can’t keep holding onto the version of us I hoped for when your actions have already told me the truth. I wanted it to work. I wanted you to want it the way I did. But wanting something deeply doesn’t make it mutual. So I’m learning to accept what hurts: sometimes the person you would have chosen a thousand times simply isn’t choosing you. And as heartbreaking as that is, I have to choose myself now.
aisyah retweeted
For a RELATIONSHIP to really work, you gotta understand this: You and your partner are TWO different people, with two different pasts, trying to build ONE future. You didn't grow up the same, you won't always think the same, and that's okay. What matters is HOW you handle it. Communicate without turning everything into an argument. Listen even when you're frustrated. Stop keeping score and start choosing growth. Because every disagreement shouldn't create distance. It should build understanding
aisyah retweeted
Being in a relationship means remembering that you were raised by different people, so naturally you’ll love, communicate, and react differently. The goal isn’t to become the same person. It’s to respect those differences, stay curious, and actually try to understand where each other is coming from.
aisyah retweeted
I just wanna really want to experience being genuinely liked or loved JUST ONCE. tired of hearing words and no mf action bruh.
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aisyah retweeted
I wish more men AND women would just say, “I wasn’t taught how to date properly. I’m interested in you though, and I’m willing to learn how to show you that in a way you can actually receive. Just be honest, intentional and teachable. I can work with “I don’t know how.” I cannot work with “this is just how I am” while you proceed to stress me the hell out
