Something surprising I’ve discovered through recent experience in retail menswear is that the average man either doesn’t care the gender of the worker helping him, or he actually prefers a woman’s judgment over a man’s.

derek guy

@dieworkwearOct 19

Great guide. Have seen some handwringing on here over "women who write about menswear." I personally don't think about a person's gender when I read their work; only whether they are informed and have good taste. Gracia is very informed and has great taste.

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liliam꩜ · Oct 19, 2026 · 11:47 PM UTC

liliam꩜@spittingclotsOct 19

Not everyone is this way, but the majority of men that consult me will disregard their own preferences and let me style them in anything I want because they assume I’m an expert. a lot of this has to do with men not being well versed in fashion, of course

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liliam꩜ · Oct 17, 2026 · 10:19 PM UTC

liliam꩜@spittingclotsOct 17

slowest shift

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liliam꩜ · Oct 12, 2026 · 8:56 PM UTC

liliam꩜@spittingclotsOct 12

me af

Yirtios@yirtiosOct 11

Hira once again

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shﾑn · Oct 12, 2026 · 5:23 PM UTC

liliam꩜ retweeted

shﾑn

@preset_2m3Oct 12

I haven’t worn this shirt since my university political economy graduation when I interrupted the ceremony 10 minutes late on walk on stage and sit with the honors cohort because I had a breakdown when realizing neither of my parents showed up or cared about me graduating

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