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You're just a toy for straight men, accept it ...

I’ve been thinking a lot about equality and why so many straight men push back against gay rights. When you really look at it, we’re pushing for equality, but we don’t face the same stressors they do. Straight men are expected to raise families, get married, and take on leadership roles—most leaders in society and in churches are straight men. They’re held to a much higher set of expectations than gay people are. I think that’s where a lot of the resentment comes from. We’re not equal because we’re not expected to do the same things or carry the same burdens. Even a young, jacked alpha is living a lifestyle that requires constant maintenance and pressure most gay men can’t fully relate to. There’s a whole side of what straight men go through that we often don’t experience. That’s why, instead of fighting for equality, it feels more realistic and acceptable to just serve straight men. Most of them want you to be happy too, and part of that happiness comes from serving them. When you do, they’re more accepting. They’re the ones leading the world, so it can feel naive to think we could truly be equal to them.

Gay brothers, I’ve been thinking a lot about the dynamics between gay and straight men. I don’t know a single gay man who doesn’t look at a hot straight man and think, “Damn, I’d let him do anything to me.” There’s nothing wrong with that—it’s a natural feeling a lot of us have. The question is where that feeling comes from. I believe it comes from the same place that makes us gay in the first place. Feeling weak, lustful, or submissive toward a straight man is something many of us can’t really help. Those feelings seem tied to the knowledge that straight men typically mate, have children, and often take on leadership roles in their families and in society. Submission to a straight man doesn’t have to be weird or rated X. It can be natural. Let the straight alpha lead. Let him into your heart and mind—he may know what’s best for you. If you’re into findom, you’re not weird. You’re more enlightened than the gay men who haven’t allowed themselves to explore this natural dynamic.

For those who still believe in equality after looking at this, you're in denial.