Because I have delayed processing lmao.
You might get that βactually I didnβt like thatβ text 2 weeks later, but the idea that I canβt speak up at a later time is what prevented me from speaking up at all for years.
If I donβt like it I donβt like it, and I might not want a crowd
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Finding out that Iβve let people gaslight me for most of my life is humbling.
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βWindrushβ has become a very lazy way to describe the Caribbean community in Britain, is it as dehumanising as calling all Caribbean people Jamaican.
Itβs time to be specific about those you are claiming to speak about or honour.
Have you ever tried asking them to wash their hands when they have a sign like this in their room? They act like youβve shot them
Thereβs a mosquito in my room terrorising me.
Iβm sure they do something for the ecosystem but plz I could rid the world of them like thanos very quickly.
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the thing abt βmen arenβt allowed to cryβ is that women arenβt really allowed to either. women get mocked and berated for crying, and their momentary tears are used to justify their exclusion from βseriousβ workplaces, environments and activities
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Once the company start complaining about consumables like sugar, coffee and milk....start updating your CV..
Trying to explain this people is really hard. Hurt feelings get treated like proof of a boundary violation instead of what they often areβ¦the normal cost of two people having different needs, priorities, or capacities..
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Youβre not. Your parents were supposed to plan for that as part of their retirement and aging plans.
Iβm begging you, please donβt do this to your kids. Understand that there is a greater than 0 chance you will need assisted living. Maybe even dementia care. Donβt give your kids this burden.
When we said some people were using M&S as a class signifier though they said we were reaching
RE the Asda stuff, Iβm quite surprised that a lot of people had to be told that you can justβ¦β¦buy things *other* than food in the Β£30 off deal loool sounds like everyone just wanted to judge the Asda shoppers immediately instead π #interesting
And people are also becoming less likely to openly express being hurt. Because even being hurt is seen as your fault, for not having or enforcing the right boundaries.
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I also think we're uncomfortable w/ the possibility that suffering can fundamentally change someone w/o making them wiser, kinder, or stronger. We want trauma to produce some compensating benefit so the suffering was βworth it,β but unfortunately thatβs not always the case
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Karaoke bars should carry dancehall starter pack and a soca starter pack of songs
I can sing about all sorts of slackness in the booth, but not my flavour of slackness... need that to change





















