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At this point, consistency, consideration, and genuine intentions will always speak louder than anything. π€β¨
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Stop dealing with people who have nobody in their life holding them accountable. Those type of people will do you wrong, justify it, and then gather a bunch of other unaccountable mfs to back them up. Next thing you know, you getting gaslit for reacting to THEIR behavior.
Let's normalize saying, βYou donβt have the capacity to communicate consistently, provide reassurance, or reciprocate the effort Iβm giving. Weβre simply not compatible, so letβs part ways.β
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Hay gente que hunde todos los barcos a los que se sube y aΓΊn asΓ estΓ‘ convencida que el problema es el mar.
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Sometimes God removes your comfort around certain people before you understand why they aren't right for you.
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Deactivating social media made me realise just how invisible I can be to people. No one calls. No one texts to check on me. No one seems to notice that Iβve gone quiet or wonder where Iβve been. Itβs as if the moment I stopped showing up on their screens, I slowly stopped existing in their minds too. And thereβs something deeply painful about realising how many connections seem to depend on your online presence. You can spend so much time interacting with people, watching their lives, keeping up with their updates and assuming youβre part of each otherβs worlds, only to step away and realise how little effort some people make to maintain that connection outside of social media. It makes you wonder how many people genuinely think about you when youβre not constantly reminding them that you exist. How many would reach out simply because they miss you, want to hear your voice or care enough to ask how youβve been. I know people get busy and silence doesnβt always mean someone doesnβt care. But it still hurts when you realise that if you stopped making yourself visible, you might stop hearing from people altogether. Disappearing from social media teaches you who remembers you when thereβs nothing on their screen reminding them that you exist.
