“Lastly, there’s one more thing I want to say to you all, something I’ve been thinking about for a long time. (I promise I’ll say this and then wish you all goodnight hahaha” “Because I once came across something online that said, ‘The more flawless a person seems, the more likely they are to be criticized. But when someone is vulnerable, even the smallest thing they do well can earn them endless praise” “Sometimes, I really do feel like I’m the first type of person. There was a period when I felt an immense amount of pressure because of it and found myself overthinking things a lot too” “But one day, I suddenly came to see things differently. I realized that since I hold myself to a different standard, I should strive to meet it and even surpass it. After that, I actually became quite proud of myself, hahaha! You could say that I’m blindly confident, but that’s genuinely how I see it” “So, I want to tell you all is that sometimes, the unhappiness we experience in life really depends on how we choose to look at things. Sometimes, all it takes is a change in perspective. Be a little more confident, love yourself a little more, or even be a little more narcissistic. You might realize that sometimes, the people criticizing you are simply projecting their own emotions onto you. But there’s no need to judge them, either, because they might be going through their own struggles. But there’s no need to judge them as they might be going through their own struggles too. So, don’t let things like this make you overthink or wear yourself down” “This is my biggest realization of the year!”