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Replying to @notebookninja_
No you clearly don't get it since you admit that you don't believe lesbians exist
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Usher knows who this man is.
Outside of being a shit person he is legitimately so fucking annoying.
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Damn. That black girl on TikTok who be imitating these girls is so spot on down to the intonation of the giggles. Crazy work
not her trying so hard to get the titties to move. Babygirl real ones dont need that much effort if I jumped like that i'd get a black eye 🥲
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I really miss when R&B was more mainstream. My white friends loved this song and Ashanti
one of the best songs of the 2000s, don't try to fight me on this. great video too.
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Just like your statement doesn’t matter honestly. I get it. I GET IT. But this is like maybe one of the few times they can’t take your word for it because it opens everyone up to risks if they give you something that impacts a pregnancy.
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It also means you have to be cognizant of the types of jobs you’re applying for. I’m neurodivergent w neurodivergent friends. One manages an editing team. She had to tell one of her team members that they can’t just hang up on clients just because they question a decision .
Replying to @DunkinDoubleCup
we seem to be in a weird space where “neurodivergent” has come to mean “i’m different so actually i need accomodations” when in reality it means “i’m different so i have to figure out how to make it work in the real world.”
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My 3 year old nephew isn’t nonverbal, but he still babbles a lot. Speaks in shorter sentences. The other day he didn’t want to leave my house and said: no dad, I’m staying with TT. So friends, what are we doing tonight?” in the most non toddler way ever. Sounded like an old man.
I'm so fascinated by the idea that many non-verbal kids are actually just selectively non-verbal
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In middle school I loved Venus Williams so much that my cuz and I joined tennis. It was immediately apparent that I hated being told what to do by my coach who was doing her job.I was so uncoachable. Indignant at every suggestion.That’s what this job interview convo reminds me of
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All of admin (the bosses) at my library are arguing over the iced coffee conversation. You can tell libraries are progressive places to work because there really is a divide 😂
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Why yes. This IS how it is. This is me. But just because there’s a reason, doesn’t mean you don’t have to find ways to work around it
I got a coworker who claimed she couldn't show up at 9 because she has adhd. She regularly rolled in at 10. Our boss decided that she'd give her a bone and set our core, in-office hours as 10-3. Coworker started rolling up at 11.
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Why would someone who doesn’t fit the social contract of niceness care if someone is rude to them?
Replying to @CoraCHarrington
My issue is the mindset that those who do not fit the social contract of niceness, often those who are neurodivergent are deserving of less or even rudeness as evidenced by your reasoning. As a disability advocate I find the language u use to talk about social norms very limiting
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No. They’re corny shaming
Replying to @eazythestar
Yall body shaming.
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They don’t “care”, but the entire reason we’re seeing this conversation is because iced coffee defenders are mad that interviewers see it as a reflection of them. That isn’t not caring
There’s this misunderstanding where people think Gen Z doesn’t know about all these unspoken social rules; they know, a lot of them just don’t care, and it upsets people to realize they didn’t have to care either.
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Meanwhile these are easier for me to walk in than heels
HOWWWWW can she walk on those heels???? And the bag??? 😭😭😭😭 I love her
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Yep. If you go into this show after being hyped up about the twist it’s underwhelming and easy to guess. I had fun because I treated it surface level. People hyped up the twist in His & Hers so much that I made two outlandish guesses going in and both were right. I was so mad 😂
it's a good twist if you're not expecting a twist but if someone tells you "hey, this show about people being in heaven has a great twist" your first guess would be that they're actually in hell
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Please be so for real. Caroline season one was awful. I’m rewatching right now. Her one sided beef w Elena. She took her insecurities out on literally everyone. Had an inability to not make everything about herself. Which is why Bonnie couldn’t talk to her. It’s literally her arc
Replying to @lodgelcdge
she’ll be like haha guys remember when i was human and crazyyyy? i’m like girl do you remember when they treated you like you were hysterical and unhinged?
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Did Jenna Dewan not have to learn a little ballroom for Take the Lead? 🤔
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So many people’s dreams is to not work and we be so surprised that’s a celebrity’s dream too 😂
to think that she used to be one of the most prominent musicians in the industry and she just went away like she wasn't one of the biggest popstars
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Or just because they want quality. I want Taraji to be paid what she feels she’s worth, but why does it have to come at the expense of quality?
Replying to @expressionzofLE
Because they’re looking at it from the outside instead of from the inside.
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You don’t have a “straight answer” to this because you refuse to accept that what we think of as romance today is different than how it started out. In most instances we know and accept that language changes and evolves. Except for when it comes to this apparently.
Replying to @puckworm
I've yet to get a straight answer on why a happily-ever-after is required for it to be romance. Surely the great tragic romances bely that.
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So when we say a romance requires an HEA. THIS is the romance we are referring to. We don’t mean gothic horror, or a tragedy, or adventure. Go read a story about a knight if you want. We want Beverly Jenkins or Ilona Andrews or Nora Roberts in this instance.
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Btw, romance as a genre carries publishing on its back. It is the most popular genre that generates the most sales. The reason you can read that book you think makes you intellectually superior? The pub only had the money to pay that writer’s advance because of romance.
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