𝙍͟𝙀͟𝙈͟𝙄͟𝙀͟𝙇͟

That's the whole point, that's how you break the cycle of hatred. Nagato is also a victim and a victim of the Leaf at that. He says as much to Naruto. "What about my friends and family? What about my village? You're trying to get revenge on me for destroying your village and you call that justice, but where is my justice?" When people enter a cycle of hurting each other out of retribution and their perceived justice, the only way for it to end is through understanding and forgiveness. That's how you end generational conflict between bloodlines/nations. Naruto LEARNS this through Pain, literally. Upon losing his friends and village he understood the hatred Pain felt for him and understood his actions and was mature enough to recognize what needed to happen.