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Narcissism ✔️
Toxic Family ✔️
Gaslighting ✔️
Parental-Child Neglect ✔️
Revenge ✔️
Christmas ✔️
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They’ll mock you for speaking out, because hurting you is an achievement for them. Remember, leaders and good people empower people. Miserable people who live with self shame are high strung, angry and critical. Remember: Good people = empower. Bad people = undermine
Along with a few others, many years ago, we were one of the few leading voices on narcissism and Cluster B personality types in the form of abuse and recovery. Our book Behind The Mask: An Introduction into Covert Narcissism being one of the main books in the field. We’re proud these topics are somewhat mainstream now and people are familiar with the key character traits and “playbook” these monsters use. Keep fighting the good fight 👊
A toxic bully will mock their target if the target speaks out. “Always playing the victim” they will say, “feeling sorry for yourself” they will say, “you’re weak” they will say. Imagine if a loved one of yours spoke out about feeling like they are being bullied by you, you would be mortified. But these rules don’t apply to the narcissist. They will undermine you, mock you, and when you speak up, they will double down. The truth is, they just don’t like you - furthermore, they are obsessed with making sure you don’t get a shred of respect or credibility from themselves or their minions. Not in the past, not in the present, never in the future
They want you to be who they want you to be. If you deviate from the script, you’ll be vilified. Your individuality doesn’t exist to a cluster b personality, it’s only THEIR view that matters. Remember, they aren’t living in the real world, only their own altered reality
Guess what? They’ll criticise this too. They’ll also criticise that you’ve even suggested that that would be criticised
People, specifically some people, will create a version of you that does not exist.
Success and happiness is a mirror 🪞
One can’t see what is not within them.
Keep being you 👊
Happy & confident? You’re arrogant and dont deserve it! Sad and depressed? You’re weak with no backbone. Regardless of what you are, who you are and what you do, the rotten apple, when they’re able to infiltrate your space, will find an attack. They quite simply are disagreeable to everything you say or do. Everything. A more informal term is, they’re losers. Complete losers #itsNotYou #narcissisticawareness #narcaware #bulliesarelosers #unemployedlosersarelosers #minions
You know what narcissists and narcissistic led tribes try to do to someone they perceive as a threat? They try to kill it.
What is a threat to them? Success, happiness, authenticity.
You are worthy and you do belong. Don’t let the voice of the loser narcissist make you think otherwise
Interesting when an unemployed/extremely low-end performing narcissist worshiper (aka codependent) is exactly the thing they spew about others. Like a cruel mirror they try to deflect. These losers know they’re losers, right?🪞
If EVERYTHING you do is criticised. Having fun = self serving. Helping others = fake. Walking the dog = has to do it. Works hard = no other choice. Eats ice cream = should be sharing it with the homeless. Then what that person is actually saying is they despise your existence. They don’t want you to live. In fact, they want you dead. A visceral kind of hate which only the hater can truly explain. #narcissisticrage #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticfamily #narcissistichatefullosers
If you’re authentic, those living in their own fake reality, or a codependent living in their masters fake reality, won’t like you. You won’t be welcomed. Furthermore, they’ll probably try to crush you. Authenticity doesn’t fit will into false realities




