I think women will be in a better place when we start admitting how delusional we are about dating and money. Like on this app people were twisting into pretzels to defend a celeb that was dating a fraud star she knew about and claiming that her dating the fraud star just to depict a “kept” lifestyle to her clearly gullible audience was not ideal. Thats when I started to realise how deeply delusional and attached to money a lot of us were. Like in which world is it ok to optimise your dating pool for a man who doesn’t ask what you need money for before giving you? You don’t you ask what people need money for before giving them? Or is the concept of having your own money strange to you? A lot of you want to date fraud men, men who launder money, sell drugs or do yahoo but you also can’t openly admit it because you have positioned yourself as “progressive”. What we don’t see is the amount of things you have to do to yourself and other women constantly in other to date that demographic. The amount of harm they bring to the settings. Now you’re in church going viral for telling your pastor that you broke up with a doctor because he didn’t want to spend money on you like he’s a thief. It’s the same way they will do that “he’s a 10 but he’s a married man or yahoo boy” and the women will all stay. Or marry an already married man for shared resources then start doing content to convince us that they are happy. I’m wary of women like these because they typically never have anything more going for them, they look down on you for having a job or business but can only have things when a man in their life buys it for them. because the pursuit of such men in Nigeria is a full time job. And if you have other interests outside “man” you won’t be able to be friends with girls like that.