See the way you squeezed in “must bring more than her presence.” 😂 Let me fix that for you: If a man must be financially stable before dating, a woman must be financially stable too. A broke woman has no business being in a relationship. When a man is asking you out, it is a valid reason to turn him down: “I’m sorry, I’m too broke to be in a relationship right now.” Women go to school now; they have access to top skills and well-paying jobs as men. We should start having the same financial expectations of them. They should be making money, and we should learn to broke-shame them the same way they do to men. There is nothing like a “hard-working woman” or “I’m just a girl.” You are broke; let’s say things as they are. You went to the university; I did too. You are working; I’m working too. But you are the one who is trying your best, while I’m the one who is broke. If we decide to go into a relationship, you will claim to be an “understanding girlfriend” who is building and suffering with me, while I’m the broke boyfriend who can’t give you all you deserve. Nigerian women are the luckiest women in the world. 😂