yizhuo retweeted
inilah contoh konkret kenapa org yg blm menyadari/memproses traumanya sendiri seringkali mengecilkan pengalaman traumatis org lain. mereka merasa punya standar yang lebih baik dlm menghadapi trauma, seolah-olah orang lain jg harus mampu merespons penderitaannya dgn cara yang sama
yizhuo retweeted
such a non-issue. ppl are mad bc it ruins their fantasy of what should be a celebratory day which is so selfish. it’s not even about you & your perfect father figure 😭 “trauma projection” “party pooper” heh nirempati u invalidasi respon emosi korban child abuse/mistreatment
yizhuo retweeted
my soulmate is probably someone who spent just as much time on the computer as i did as a child & teenager but also has a pure heart and a deep, intense love for People and Going Outside even if they aren't able to do it that much for some reasons they don't fully understand
