I'm not a red flag, maybe burgundy but certainly not red

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They Wanted To Know Why, But Life Was Drained Out Of Them. Never Chase The People Who Betrayed You For Answers. You Won't Get Any.

Two You Will Die From Your Injuries. The Best Way To Deal With A Cobra Bite Is To Attend The Wound As Soon As Possible. You Don't Need To Know Why The Cobra Did What It Did. A Lot Of People Are Dead Today Because They Prioritized The Reason More Than The Solution.

Sometimes You Don't Need To Chase The Reason. Let Me Give You An Example. Let's Say You Are In The Jungle. While You Are There. You Get Bitten By A Cobra. Do You Know That If You Chase The Cobra, One You Are Not Going To Catch It (In Grass)

But not knowing whether the thing you’re risking everything for is real in the first place.

And if it is faith, how do you know when you’re following something real and when you’re simply giving meaning to something because you desperately want it to be real? Maybe that’s the hardest part. Not knowing whether the person is worth the risk.

People have walked roads like this before. Some faced the consequences and found their way back. Some never did. Some lost everything. Some lost their lives. And some stories, we may never know. So then I wonder: Is all of this spiritual? Or is it belief and faith?

You might lose things. You might have to sacrifice. You might even find yourself starting all over again.

Because even if both of you want it, even if you reassure each other and decide to walk together, aligning yourself with another person can still have consequences. Some choices cost you something.

Is this person giving you enough peace to take that kind of risk? Are they reassuring you? Are they accountable? Are they willing to let themselves be the one for you, while allowing you to be the one for them?

Learn its ways. Learn how to walk with it. Find out how the two of you can exist together without constantly fighting against what makes each of you who you are. But then comes the real question: Is it worth it?

I heard something that made me think. Everyone has their own spirit, and sometimes, if you really want someone, the fact that their spirit doesn’t naturally align with yours doesn’t necessarily mean you should leave. Maybe you have to understand how that spirit works.

When something isn't good for you, it isn't good for you no matter how long you try to make it work. Sometimes, the spirit in a person just isn't good for you. And that doesn't necessarily make them a bad person. It just means they're not good for you.