It's not beef if I can walk past ANY ONE of y'all and nothing is done to me... Real beef is when it's on ON SIGHT!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I basically have two moods, either let's do something spontaneous and awesome, or let's just lay in bed all day and forget the world exists...
People don't trigger you.
They trigger you.
YOU are not your trigger.
You are moved by your triggered reaction.
Your trigger usually points to what you need to heal.
You are responsible for your trigger and healing.
Be healthily sensitive. Tell them you're hurt when you're hurt. Describe what hurt you. No silent treatment and passive aggressiveness. Be honest. Don't compromise your emotion. Don't bottle it up. Weigh the issue. Understand and maybe forgive.
I rarely accept apologies. I treated you goldenly. You should've known better. I forgive for my own peace of mind. Live with the loss.

