You're earning N500k per month as a married man. But you keep telling your wife that what you earn is 350k. Because you no wan tell am the truth. You no even know say that your 500k na suffer head. You think that you're making money. In this present economy, a wife that is helping you manage N500k income per month and she's not complaining is a good wife and an understanding wife. Especially if you have children. Na poverty mindset dey worry you. End.

You married a woman, but she cannot know how much you earn? Then what or who exactly did you marry? A roommate? Your wife should not have to investigate your finances like EFCC is looking for evidence. “This is what I earn.” “This is what I owe.” “These are my responsibilities.” “This is what we can afford.” These conversations should not frighten two people who have agreed to build a life together. And let us be clear: telling your wife what you earn does not mean surrendering control of your money to her. Transparency is not the same thing as foolishness. A man owes his wife financial transparency and his wife owes him financial accountability. But if you believe she cannot be trusted with even the knowledge of your income, then the bigger problem is not your salary. The bigger question is why you married someone you cannot trust with important information about your life. A healthy marriage needs trust, and financial honesty is part of that trust. You cannot be one flesh emotionally, spiritually and physically, then become two separate governments immediately money enters the discussion. Something no balance. End.

This is my personal opinion and you're always free to disagree. If you cannot tell your wife what you earn and how money comes into your account (legitimately), then you do not trust your wife. If a married man cannot trust his wife financially, then he is in big trouble. End.