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a #byler & #lumax & #henderhop socmed au || smau
!! inspired by 10 things I hate about you !!
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🎅🏻Ho Ho Ho Bylers!
So excited to announce our Happy Bylerdays Secret Santa!
This will be a winter/holiday themed gift exchange open to writers & artists!
Details are below for sign-ups as well as schedule, rules & requirements!
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if y'all dont hear from me for a bit dont be alarmed, several of the fandoms im currently in are going through major discourse with absolutely 0 nuance to the point where I can even mute/block it all (esp bc lots of ppl are censoring words im trying to block?) and its getting +
tiring as hell coming online to nothing but people being aggressive, picking fights, taking everything in bad faith, and just generally assuming the worst in one another.
you all need a lesson in empathy and to touch grass. yes even you, person who thinks they are not causing +
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i've always found it fascinating how, for a portion of the internet so full of leftists, fandomtwt seems much more obsessed with retributive justice & punitive consequences than with restorative justice & harm reparation but maybe that's just bc of how social media is wired
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I think some of u need to look up what gothic means <3 maybe read up on real gothic literature, too <33333
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this also applies to *before* anyone does anything bad. if you constantly treat a group of people negatively, chances are they're going to retaliate with a bunch of bullshit and things that end up being horrible because they want you to feel as bad as they do.
yes, its +
shit that we have to be kind to people who may be unkind to us, but thats genuinely *how this shit works*. you cant expect people to even WANT to grow or change or listen to your point if you're just spitting insults & vitriol at them.
and if you are kind to them and they +
important reminder team cancel culture is toxic & does not promote learning or growth. you're less likely to see someone properly learn, apologize, change their attitudes, and improve if you immediately jump to cancel culture, name calling, and anger.. +
yes, it's chill to call something out when you see it, but if you actually want any positive change you *also* need to be kind in your calling them out.
"I shouldn't have to be kind to bigots"
fair, but chances are they're going to dig themselves deeper into their bigotry +
its funny how the duffers were essentially riding on SK's everything (like seriously) when u remember SK's whole thing is that character is more important than plot & plot is just a crutch for shitty writers & the duffers essentially fucked s5 by ignoring characters for plot lol
I daid this last time the sttwt awards came around and i'll bloody well say it again-the results mean literally nothing. they're a popularity award and nothing else. if you dont get picked, dont be sad.
the awards are dumb and will cause more grief than joy as they always do.
also i'd like to say that I could literally win every single category and i'd still hold this opinion.
bylertwt has a massive issue with idolizing accounts and creating literal fandoms for them when we're all equals in the space, and it has for awhile now.
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How do I put this nicely?
Every day is a popularity contest on bylertwt. A literal popularity contest is no different. I personally hate it, you’ve heard my opinions on how this fandom treats small fic writers before. So color me tired, but not surprised + no longer giving af.












