Teem of FifthRougue

The postfuck nonchalance attitude you receive is directly proportional to the shakara you did prefuck. I will take it a bit further: You see, postnut clarity for men is really an interesting thing. It's not that the woman look less beautiful than she was spotted when the pursuit began, post sex. It's that, her beauty, in the man's reflection on her pre-fuck insufferable attitude, holds no weight in his choice to ressurect his ego after engaging in a self humiliating ritual of courting her. That is to say that, prefuck, all a man does is drop his ego and feed the woman's by accepting and soaking all her inanities and shenanigans. And Post-fuck, a man search back for the ego he dropped at beginning of this exercise. And in that mental process, the grace and niceness the woman enjoyed pre-fuck, are deleted. Women questioning or complaining of men's detachment and coldness after sex says alot about how women don't recognise the effect of their pre-fuck attitudes on the man's self image. And so they expect the man with whom they were unnecessarily dramatic, insolent, and treated with hubris not to suffer any form of self loathing for all these hits to his ego after sex, even When all that self humiliation lead to was some mins or hour of sexual intercourse, with no other value in sight. Point is postnut clarity in men is majorly a period of self loathing and not some performed nonchalance as women will often think. That bro is disgusted in himself for putting up with all that sh*t from you, only for you to give him a misaligned pussy as a reward. Respect his healing process.