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I do not stand with J K Rowling. My trans friends are all just as fabulous as my other friends. And it's not trans people who present a threat in women-only spaces, or safe spaces: it's sexual predators, who are a different group entirely. If you disagree, unfollow or block me.
How different the world would be if @HillaryClinton had won the election. And how much better, too. I still cannot believe that Trump was ever voted in. And twice? How?
Ten years ago today.
In just the last few days: Trump made a deal for the U.S. to buy Russian diesel, an economic lifeline for Putin; he and Elon Musk blamed each other for an order that slowed down Starlink satellite connectivity over Ukraine, hampering the country's defenses during a devastating Russian attack; and Trump waived sanctions on Russia that Congress, led by his late friend Lindsey Graham, had pushed for.
Now, Putin has proposed a summit with Trump and Xi to decide Ukraine’s fate for them, bulldoze a century of international cooperation, and frame Russia as an equal to the U.S. and China.
We’ll see if Putin’s puppet continues to dance on his strings.
Police refused to let me report years of rape/abuse/coercive control. Then said it wasn't R/A/CC, despite lawyer saying it was worst case she'd seen. They said I had no evidence tho Women's Aid said my evidence was v strong, and set case for NFA. No wonder women don't report.
When I was being cross-examined by my stalker's defence lawyer in court, he pulled out a dictionary, pointed to the word "harassment" and asked me to read its meaning aloud. I refused.
He then picked one of the dozens of messages my stalker had sent me and asked what exactly was abusive about it. When I asked, "Isn't that abusive language?", the judge reprimanded me for asking questions back. The lawyer, I was told, was merely doing his job.
At one point, the defence lawyer read aloud one of my stalker's disgusting messages. The judge remarked, "oh, our accused is a budding poet," and proceeded to laugh, along with the defence lawyer and a few others in the courtroom.
Procedure is punishment. If a survivor even musters the courage to fight back, the system will make sure she regrets it, questions herself and second-guesses her decision to seek justice every step of the way.
She is made to relive her trauma, defend her dignity, justify her fear and prove, over and over again, that what happened to her was wrong.
The perpetrator gets a defence. The survivor gets put on trial.
Men enable men. And patriarchy has ensured that men occupy most of the positions from which women's experiences are questioned, minimised and dismissed.
We keep getting asked why women don't report sexual violence and harassment. Why we don't fight back. Why we withdraw complaints. Why we choose silence. They are in denial about what we are put through when we do.
Not only did Trump pardon all the January 6 rioters: he called them all patriots. PATRIOTS. After they did this.
Trump is a disgrace. To the work of the president, to democracy, and to the USA.
NEVER FORGET
On January 6,
2021, six men dragged this officer down the Capitol steps.
He heard one scream, "I got one!" before the others ripped off his badge, stripped him of his radio, and seized his ammunition that was secured to my body.
They beat him with their fists and what felt like hard metal objects.
He heard chanting from some in the crowd - "Get his gun!" and "Kill him with his own gun!"
This officer suffered a heart attack and a traumatic brain injury.
Trump pardoned those six men.
Jane Smith retweeted
Dear Delta thank you for kicking me out of the first class seat I booked and paid for FIVE MONTHS AGO. The first class seat that, until a couple days ago, was one of the only seats booked in first class. The seat I picked and willingly paid more for *specifically* because I didn't want to deal with some hissy fit from someone in the middle seat because I'm plus sized now …
I get really nervous for job interviews. Decided to take a different approach & got hammered the night before. I turned up confident, charming & I answered their questions with ease. But I never heard back. Called up & they said I was the worst candidate they've ever interviewed
As I said in my last tweet, incontinence is not a reason to criticise or try to humiliate anyone. No matter how awful they are.
Trump is a dreadful, dangerous man who has done unspeakable things. But trying to diminish him because he might be incontinent is not appropriate. I know, because I am doubly incontinent, and have been for over a decade.
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I haven't seen this in a long while but well worth a shout out again today. Here's to the BBC. Don't let it go.
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My eldest has an Agpar score of three (the only test he's ever failed!) while my youngest got full marks. Both were premature, emergency caesareans. This score ensured they each received the best care for their needs. They are both thriving today.
In 1952, inside a New York City delivery room, a baby was born blue and silent. Doctors hesitated, unsure whether to keep trying. Then a calm voice broke through the panic.
“Let’s score the baby,” said Dr. Virginia Apgar.
That moment changed medicine forever.
Apgar had once dreamed of being a surgeon, but in the 1940s few women were allowed into the operating room. Told that no hospital would hire her, she turned to anesthesiology instead — a decision that would save millions of lives.
Working in Columbia-Presbyterian’s maternity ward, she saw newborns die within minutes of birth because doctors had no system to judge which babies needed help first. So one morning in 1952, she grabbed a pen and paper and designed a five-point test measuring heart rate, breathing, muscle tone, reflex response, and skin color. She called it the Apgar Score.
The idea spread faster than anyone expected. Within a decade, almost every hospital in America was using it. Infant mortality fell sharply. Doctors finally had a language for newborn care — and babies once thought lost were suddenly being saved.
Apgar never stopped pushing forward. She earned a public health degree, joined the March of Dimes, and became a global voice for mothers and infants. When asked how she had thrived in a man’s world, she laughed, “Women are like tea bags — they don’t know how strong they are until they’re in hot water.”
Dr. Virginia Apgar passed away in 1974, but her test still guides every delivery room on Earth. Every two seconds, somewhere in the world, a baby takes its first breath — and someone quietly calls out a number that honors the woman who refused to give up on newborns or on herself.
My lovely Maisie, who is now in her mid teens (she's a fabulous and much-loved Siamese cat for those of you who don't know) is declining. She is confused, struggles to get onto our bed without the ramp I've bought her, startles easily, gets confused a lot about where I am. 1/n
But she's never got over the loss of Luna, her best friend, who arrived with me over six years ago now, and who passed away last February. Maisie has refused to make friends with Coco, the other cat who lives with us, and is now often distressed, confused, and shouty.

















