What I’ve learnt in past 18 months is don’t get bogged down by life. Appreciate every moment and experience. Do that thing you’ve been putting off. Don’t hold grudges and be kind to everyone. I’m just so grateful right now for the past 17 years 💜

I don’t know what it is with me and dishwashers. The cutlery tray has now snapped in half and I can hear the forks jumping around. They need life jackets. It’s chaos.

Happy Mother’s Day Debs x

This is for everyone who’s struggling with Mothers Day ❤️

You can still donate! Link in bio ❤️

So when debs was in her final days, very poorly in the hospice she turned to me and the kids and said, ‘ I want you four to do something to help this place. ' So that’s what we are doing on Saturday.

The donations for me and @elisjames 100m sprint on Saturday for @StChrisHospice are just great. Up to 4k almost. The goal is 10k. People are cool xx gofundme.com/f/st-christophe…

Happy Valentine’s Day ❤️

Ribs with the kids in Brixton and lots of laughs. Onwards ✨

Debs would have been 47 today. Me and the kids are going to her fav restaurant in Brixton to wish her a happy birthday ❤️

I’m doing stand up now. Because nothing says ‘grieving responsibly’ like telling strangers about the tarmac I cried on.

Big up everyone who might be missing someone and what was and trying to hold it all together over Christmas ❤️

It’s pumping in my local for the Cardiff v Chelsea game.

My dog has fleas and is constipated. It’s not even 10am and I am covered in flea eggs and dog shit. ✊🏻

I’m 44 and back on dating apps. I’m basically the grief version of a comeback tour

Really missing Debs today

Wakey, wakey you Lasagne making legends. Click on the link in my bio and donate to the hospice. If everyone on here donates £1 we will hit the 10k target! ❤️

My daughter is 11 today! Started off badly at 7am when none of her presents had arrived. Tears, disbelief and that was just me. But what a comeback. Everything arrived by 12. Went out for an amazing lunch and then went to a bonfire night. ☑️