Christian. ChlorMel. Counsellor. King-Priest. Leader. Healer. Giver. HR Consultant 🌻
Lagos, Nigeria
Joined April 2011
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Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
Na you fuck up, the correct answer to “who will carry it” is “the baby will be waybilled from China” very exclusive cargo
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
Guy shares his experience after going on a date with a Nigeria feminist in the uk 😂😂💔
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
“I Once Dated a Man I Didn’t Like Because Of Money. At The Time, I Was Going Through Financial Difficulties, And He Came Along. Honestly, He Wasn’t My Type, Either In Appearance Or In Terms Of My Personal Standards. I Knew The Kind Of Man I Truly Wanted. So, I Dated Him For The Money And Eventually Broke Up With Him When The Kind Of Man I Wanted Came Along. Today, I’m Married To That Man.” ~ Lady Speaks At KayHikerClub 👀
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
And by the way, Monday Okpebholo will be a one-time governor.
Even the APC is ashamed of him.
Most embarrassing governor in Nigeria.
End.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
I have been warning many.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
If I talk now,you people will come for me,but I dare say there is something wrong with this woman,as you saw he was the one in your room why didn’t you stand up immediately and challenge him,except it’s a dream,then it’s something you low key like or has fantasized about,next
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
A married woman messaged me this morning, feeling ashamed and unsure if what she experienced was real or a dream.
She slept naked in her room with her toddler and baby, covered only by a wrapper because the weather was hot. Her husband slept in another room.
In the middle of the night, she believes she saw her brother-in-law enter the room and look at her.
The wrapper had slipped down, exposing most of her upper body. She left him in the sitting room before going to sleep and isn’t sure what to do.
She doesn’t want things to become awkward between them.
Conversation transcribed as is:
Woman: Hello Agba, good morning. Something happened this morning and I'm kinda feeling ashamed. I slept with my toddler and my baby in my room naked and only using wrapper to cover cause the weather was hot last night while my husband slept in the other room. I think I saw my bro in law came into the room and was looking at me naked in the middle of the night while the wrapper I used in covering myself had dragged down showing most of my upper body. Now, I'm not sure if it's real or a dream. Do you think I should ask him if he was in my room last night? And I will sincerely not want things be awkward between us. Agba, please what should I do?
Me: Ahhh
But what was your brother in law doing in your room in the middle of the night?
Woman: I don't know, I left him in the sitting room before going in to sleep
Me: How old is this man?
Woman: 35 I think and he is married
Agba: So is he visiting?
Woman: Yes
Me: Are you sure he's the one that you saw? Or may be your husband was just coming to check on you and the kids
Woman: No, I asked him, he didn't
Me: Okay
Is your husband his elder?
Woman: Yes
Me: But the room was dark, wasn't it?
Woman: Yes it was but from what I saw he was using his phone light
Me: What is your relationship with him like?
Woman: Nothing serious, just on bro in law and small friendship level
Me: How old are you?
Woman: 31 years
And his wife and I are very close
Me: For how long was he present in your room? When is he leaving?
Woman: I really do not know, it might be this week or next week
Me: Okay, I'll suggest that you watch to see if it will happen again
Woman: Okay, I will.
Thank you so much
What would you advise her to do in this situation?
AJD.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
You're not smart enough to understand me.
As long as our economy is poorer than it was 4 years ago, everybody is poorer than they were 4 years ago.
Even if you think that you're making more money.
Do you understand?
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
With the comments I've read so far, people have said the truth, and the main point is that the money you invest in transportation is not the only thing at risk, your peace of mind is also at stake sir.
Sir, none of the above you mentioned is worth investing in.
Unless you want to be the one driving it yourself.
And even at that, e no still worth am 100% because shege wey you go dey see every day, your mouth no for talk am. 🤣
Imagine buying a vehicle with your hard earned money, only to spend your time chasing drivers for remittance, settling mechanical issues, dealing with the police and worrying about one problem or another.
At the end of the day, the vehicle may be making money, but the question is, how much of that money is actually profit after all the expenses and wahala?
Transportation business is a no go area for me sir.
I would rather invest my money in a business I can monitor properly without losing my peace of mind.
That’s just my own opinion sir.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
Which is more profitable & less risky to venture into:
1. Buy a car and give it out for hire purchase
2. Buy a mini-bus (korope) and give it out for hire purchase
3. Buy a tricycle (kẹ̀kẹ́) and give it out for hire purchase
Thank you.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
A man married after only six months of dating.
Six years later, his marriage is shaking.
Not mainly because of him and his wife, but because of her mother.
The mother-in-law is Ghanaian. She has one daughter and two sons. Her own marriage ended when her late husband left her for another woman.
From the moment her daughter got married, she began creating division in her son-in-law’s family. They resisted her, but she kept working through her daughter. Things in the home kept going wrong.
Recently, she visited the couple in Port Harcourt. She told her son-in-law she had something urgent in Asaba and needed to leave.
Instead, she went to his family and reported that the couple was having serious problems.
His people told her clearly: if there were real issues, they (the in-laws) would have heard from their own side, not from her. They directed her to speak to the daughter's husband’s mother. She never went.
She returned to Port Harcourt.
While she was still there, the wife’s cousin (who happened to be the husband’s old classmate) called him and told him everything the mother-in-law had said.
The husband now knows.
He is regretting the marriage. His wife, a social media person, may or may not know how much her mother is actively working against her home.
The husband’s siblings had already pulled back from her because of how she treated them. They put her where they felt she belonged, and she no longer calls anyone in that family.
What was once a welcoming home is now guarded because of one person.
Six years of marriage, and the foundation is still being shaken from the outside.
Now, question for the audience:
Should a man limit his wife’s contact with her mother when the mother is actively working against the marriage?
End.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
The first and only time that my wife met my mother was when I wanted to marry her.
My father told me to take her to see my mother, which I did.
Before then, I was in fairly constant touch with her.
But when I rented my first apartment, I told my mother about it.
"You have to invite me so I can come and bless your house for you"
I told her that my father has not been to the place and it's my father that should come bless my house first and not her.
My mother called me a stupid man.
That was when I decided to cut her off.
And she never attended my wedding because I never invited her.
My late father also left instructions that she should not be allowed to attend his burial.
We made sure that such didn't happen.
You left me at age 9, and you wanted me to place you over a man that sacrificed everything for me till I became somebody.
And you kept demonizing him.
No, it won't work.
This is why I always advise you young men and women to learn how to balance things between your parents.
Especially when they're no longer together.
I never told my dad what she said to me until he died.
But I decided to stay away and keep my children away from her.
If I had allowed my wife to be close 5o her, I may be having issues with my marriage today.
I respect her as my mother, but we are not close.
And I can't pretend about it.
End.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
Only First Class and Second Class Upper graduates should qualify to become teachers. Teachers’ starting salaries should be a minimum of ₦500,000 per month.
Teachers should be required to take professional qualification examinations every two years.
There should be an Education Bank where teachers can access very low-interest loans for car financing, home financing and other essential needs.
Teaching should be one of the most prestigious and highly respected professions in the country.
Burning βush 🇨🇦🇳🇬 retweeted
Just so you know..
If you are raising your son to be a good husband or boyfriend to some hypothetical woman in the future, you are a very stupid mother.
Why? Because no girl mom is raising her daughter for your son.
Raise your son to be a good man to himself and to society,
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A 22-year-old young lady came to my DM yesterday to complain about her 4-year-relationship with her 28-year-old boyfriend.
Her major concerns were that he has been cheating many times on her.
After reading all that she wrote, she then told me that her boyfriend is also a follower and he was the one who introduced her to the page and she has been using the teachings to improve herself and the relationship.
So I asked her to give me his handle.
She didn't hesitate.
Then I copied her message to me and sent to her boyfriend.
"Hello, this is from your girlfriend. Would you like to say something about it?"
He read all that she wrote and told me that all that she told me was the truth.
He then acknowledged that those times that he cheated were moments of weakness.
He apologized and said that he would do better and still wishes to continue the relationship.
Then I advised him on what to do.
I went back to his girlfriend and advised her to continue her relationship with him and that she should stop snooping on his phones if she wants peace for herself.
For me, if cheating is a deal breaker for any young lady, I believe they will walk away from the relationship.
When I advised her to continue with the relationship, she was happy and she thanked me.
AJD.