my most hardline couples counselling belief is if you're in there to work on a core value difference you should save yourself the money and split up
i always wonder about how much people in creative teams feel annoyed when collective effort gets credited to a singular person, because that happens with literally everything a celebrity does
"her mind" and it's something like 40 people worked their asses off to accomplish. yknow? like i think a lot of artists could do a lot of what they accomplish just off their own talent but a lot of artists outsource creative genius (not a bad thing) but then get credited for it
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passive means personality wise, not bottom or submissive. she means like indecisive of everything, doesn't put in effort, cancels dates instead of saying no in the first place and wastes everyone's time, nonconfrontational etc
like if it is ai im not going to defend that! 🤷 i just think so many people are getting scammed by "creative" companies and then having their personal reputation damaged because they actually trusted the artists they commissioned to, i don't know, do the work theyre paid to do?
CS Lewis had a theory about relationships which was that parts of who you are only exist in the shared experience of another person. The character is shaped by the context in which they were created, so another group would change the experience of playing that character
it seems silly to bring up in light of a tabletop OC but that principle is part of why grief is so hard. who you were with the deceased person died with them because it exists in that context. Im autistic lol so when my campaign dissolved, i grieved! That character is changed!
















