Elaine Beno

Celebrating the memory of the great Bobby Darin on the anniversary of his birth. I loved and adored Bobby. He was one of my dearest friends, and I have so many warm memories of him. His life was brief, but brilliant, burning hot like the brightest star, and then he was gone. He left and indelible mark and created an enduring legacy through his voice, versatility, and artistry. One of my favorites has always been his album Bobby Darin Sings Doctor Dolittle. It’s a truly beautiful recording, and, in my opinion, one of his very best. Happy birthday in heaven, old friend. It’s hard to believe you have been gone so long. I miss you very much, and I think of you often.

Twenty-eight years ago, the world lost Frank Sinatra, and I lost my dad. I don’t think I’ll ever fully get over the loss of him, or the fact that my siblings and I were disregarded and not given a chance to say goodbye. My father was one of the most extraordinary men I ever had the privilege to know. What an incredible life he lived, and what a remarkable legacy he left behind. On this sad anniversary, I find myself thinking about all he accomplished, the joy he brought to so many people, and the love he gave to those closest to him. The world could certainly use his warmth, kindness, grace, and wonderful sense of humor today. He had a way of making people feel special, whether it was one person sitting beside him or on stage in front of thousands. What I regret most is that his great-grandchildren never got the chance to know him. Oh! How they would have loved each other. Twenty-eight years later, the world still sings along with him. Young people continue discovering him for the first time, while those who loved him from the beginning still treasure the man and his music. His music is special because it came from somewhere real, and because he meant every word he sang. He left behind a body of work that continues to bring people comfort, joy, romance, and strength. Dad was always concerned that his work would be forgotten, so he would be absolutely thrilled to know that his legacy lives on across generations, not only through his music, but in the hearts and on the playlists of millions of people around the world.   Frank Sinatra is eternal. And I still miss my Daddy. I love you, Poppa.