As one of the world's leading psychotherapists on modern love and intimacy, @EstherPerel has a gift for holding up a mirror to our habits in a way that is both funny and quietly devastating.
And this line from our conversation has stayed with me:
"We need to be very careful not to replace the ritual with the virtual, the IRL with the URL."
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Esther and I explore the new threats facing modern relationships, and what we can do about them.
To start listening, search for episode 687 on Apple, Spotify or Youtube. drchatterjee.com/687
Forgiveness is not justifying, forgiveness is not condoning, forgiveness is not excusing, and forgiveness is not reconciling. Forgiveness is letting go, in order to free yourself of a burden .
Sonja Lyubomirsky (@slyubomirsky) has spent 36 years studying the science of happiness. And her reframe on forgiveness in this conversation is one that I think many people might find reassuring.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Sonja walks us through her five mindsets for feeling more loved, including radical curiosity, sharing, listening to learn, an open heart and multiplicity.
I think you'll find something in this conversation that stays with you long after you've listened.
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Why do you want to live longer? It's worth asking yourself honestly.
That question sits at the heart of this conversation with brain health expert Dr Tommy Wood (@DrRagnar) . And today, we tackle the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to protecting their brain and longevity.
You can solo optimise. You can track every biomarker, take every supplement, follow every protocol. But if you lose your connection to other people in the pursuit of living longer, you may never actually get the thing you were trying to live longer for in the first place.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Tommy and I cover seven common brain health mistakes and the practical steps to address every one of them, including why focusing on solo health habits at the expense of social connection is something we should avoid if we can.
To hear more, search for episode 681 of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast in all the usual places drchatterjee.com/681
"We are not born to be freestanding." — Terry Real
The quality of our relationships isn't just good for our happiness. The research is clear that: it shapes our physical health, our recovery from illness and even how long we live.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, world-renowned couples therapist - Terry Real and I explore why relationships are harder than ever and the one skill he believes matters more than any other for lasting love.
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How To Have More Meaningful & Intimate Relationships: A Fresh Approach That Really Works
Did you know that 70% of your immune system lives in your gut?
38 trillion microbes
Each with unique skill sets.
Different jobs
Different personalities.
Maintaining your gut barrier, training your immune system, determining what it reacts to and what it doesn't.
Often, we tend to think of the gut as being where digestion happens. But as Dr Will Bulsiewicz explains, there is a much bigger story there.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Dr Will Bulsiewicz shares exactly how to start looking after that community inside you, and why it matters for everything from inflammation to mood to long-term disease risk.
The 4 Food Types That Repair Your Gut Barrier: A Gastroenterologist's Guide To Beating Inflammation For Good
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We often think high conflict is always a problem in relationships. But there is one factor that completely changes that - honesty.
@arthurbrooks is a professor at Vanderbilt University and one of the world's leading voices on the science of happiness. I found Arthur's research on this genuinely refreshing. Because so many of us have been conditioned to believe that a good relationship means a low-conflict one. And that simply isn't what the evidence shows.
This brand new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast with Arthur is a warm, honest and personal conversation with someone who's spent decades studying happiness, but who's candid about how hard he's worked to feel it himself. By reframing happiness as a direction, not a destination, I think it could be a life-changing listen for you.
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"Ultra-processed foods increase inflammation in the body, and it takes us away from better decision-making." @DavidPerlmutter
David is a board-certified neurologist who has spent decades studying the relationship between our lifestyle choices and the health of our brains. And this idea in particular is one I keep coming back to.
For me, this goes far beyond brain health in later life. It speaks to the decisions we're making right now, every single day. And as David explains, that creates a cycle that is very difficult to break. Which is precisely why understanding it matters so much.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, David connects the dots between what we eat, how we think and where our brain health is heading.
Tune in to episode 674: The Daily Habits That Protect Your Brain At Any Age
Have you ever put off a health test out of fear of what it might find?
Dr Michael Breus is a sleep specialist with 25 years of experience. And even he initially refused to believe his own diagnosis when tests showed that he stops breathing 26 times per hour at night.
His story is a powerful reminder that nothing in a health-related situation usually magically disappears, and that investigating your symptoms could change your life.
Listen now to this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Dr Michael Breus shares why a sleep apnoea diagnosis is nothing to fear. Drchatterjee.com/672
Is a really good piece of cheese worth it... ?🧀
It sounds like a strange question, but it's one that opens up a much bigger conversation.
As soon as I read C Thi Nguyen's (@add_hawk) book The Score: How to Stop Playing Someone Else's Game, I knew I had to invite him onto my podcast.
This conversation isn't really about cheese. It's about how easily we can end up valuing the things we can measure, whilst overlooking the things that make life rich and meaningful.
If you've ever wondered whether you're living by your own values or someone else's scorecard, I think you'll really enjoy this week's conversation on my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast. Philosopher C Thi Nguyen and I go much deeper, exploring why so much of what matters most in life resists being measured, and what that costs us.
Head to episode 670 on Apple podcasts, Spotify or Youtube
This is something I find myself thinking about more and more.
The culture we live in, the beliefs we share, the values we collectively prioritise... these are the most important levers in determining whether we are a healthy country or a sick one.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, I'm joined by one of the world's leading stress researchers @Dr_Epel . We explore what chronic stress is really doing to our biology, and the habits that can help us reverse it.
Whether you struggle with overwhelm, or you suspect you’re more stressed than you realise, I know this conversation has advice you’ll want to take on board.
Tune in to episode 668, out now in all the usual places
Many of our behavioural patterns and triggers trace back to a part of us shaped long before we had the language for it: our inner child.
We often think of healing as something that happens in a therapist's office or during a major life event. But Dr Nicole LePera ( @theholistcpsyc ) has a different perspective, and it's one I find genuinely beautiful.
In this episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Nicole and I explore what it really means to heal the inner child, and the small, practical shifts that make it possible. Healing isn't about reaching an endpoint. It's an ongoing process, available to all of us at any moment we choose to join in.
Whether you've spent years exploring attachment and inner-child work, or this is your first therapy session, I know you’ll find something here that stays with you. Tune in to episode 664 to hear more.
Did you know that physical symptoms in children can be a sign of emotional distress?
Dr Howard Schubiner has spent more than 20 years helping people understand the connection between the mind and the body. And his message is one I think every parent, teacher and healthcare professional needs to hear.
We have fMRI studies showing that stress and emotions activate the same parts of the brain as physical injury. Pain is real. But its origin isn't always where we think.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Howard shares a framework that could change the way you think about pain, symptoms and the body's signals forever.
Find out more in episode 662 of the podcast
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The 10,000 step target we've all heard of has no scientific basis. And as Dr Courtney Conley explains, the good news is that the real number is much more achievable than most people think.
Adding just 1,000 steps to your daily count, roughly 10 minutes of walking, can meaningfully reduce your risk of dementia, depression and all-cause mortality. It really is that simple.
Whether you're 25 or 75, whether you walk for five minutes or five hours, I genuinely believe this conversation will shift the way you move through the world.
In this week's new episode of my 'Feel Better, Live More' podcast, Dr Courtney Conley and I explore what the research really says about steps, strength and longevity, and what it means for your daily life.
Listen now to episode 660 to hear more.
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