🤫 Do you think ds is a good way to help someone with neurospicy issues? 🗣️ Outside of a paid for service? No. (I’m going to get letters, I know) D/s is a power dynamic; the whole point is that the sub gives up power over themselves to the Dom, for the Dom to use however they wish. The key point here is that the power/authority/control that’s being given to the Dom must exist in the first place, otherwise there’s nothing to give up. If a “sub” can’t remember to drink water or take their meds or book appointments or whatever in the first place, then they’re not giving up anything of value - they’re simply abdicating responsibility. I know there’s a popular trend at the moment to position Doms as somehow being the answer to neuro spicy issues, because the Dom can take care of the “sub”, but IMHO that’s not submitting. ngl.link/thesirdax2?q=orLpIP…