Women get h*rny for reasons most men never notice. • She likes your voice: Calm. Deep. Certain. You think you’re having a conversation but she’s listening to something entirely different. • You smell good: Women attach memories to your smell. His smell can resurrect him even when he’s not in the room. • Your eye contact: No touch. No performance. Just enough silence for friendship to become questionable. • She feels protected by you: Her guard drops. Her mind quiets. A woman wants to know you have her back. • You get her: Touch her mind first: Her body listens. • She notices your hands: Forearms. Veins. Shoulders. She’s staring at the hand on the steering wheel. Female attraction loves details men don’t realize. • You kiss her forehead: Pull back. Hold her eyes. Say nothing. Entire f*cking scene saved to memory. • You spend quality time together: Laugh. Talk. Build inside jokes. She remembers how you made her feel. • She’s ovulating: Same face. Same voice. Same man. But Different hormonal cycle. Her period is approaching. Hormones shift and so does her desire. The day you realize all these things, everything changes.

Social media convinces women there is something wrong with their husbands and they need to get a divorce. Don’t believe me? Take her phone one day and see what the algorithm sends her. The scroll will be filled with stuff like: “You’re in a silent divorce if you feel: • You can’t share your concerns • Lonely when you’re not alone • It’s more peaceful away from him • Date nights feel forced not exciting • Physical affection is non-existent • You feel like roommates not friends • Conversations are about kids & work • You no longer believe he will change • You found yourself grieving married • You feel emotionally exhausted • You no longer want advice from him • You are constantly walking on eggshells • You can’t remember good time’s • You desperately want things to be different Social media tells you to walk away from responsibilities and commitment But here’s the truth: Feelings aren’t facts. You will feel all of these things Regardless, if you’re single or married. It’s a natural reaction to feel alone and overwhelmed when you go through; illness, financial stress, raising children and handling responsibilities that are bigger than yourself. That’s not your spouses fault. Your spouse isn’t to be blamed. When you live in a society of unsustainable lifestyles and endless illusion, it’s always going to feel bad. How do change this? Feeling like roommates? Initiate intimacy. Can’t talk about concerns? Encourage and respect your spouse more than you complain. Lonely while together? Focus on the good, not on the things you both hate. You’re not twins. Date nights are forced? Don’t make date nights a production. Cook a meal at home and be present not on your phone. No longer believe they can change? Stop trying to change the person you married. Deprogramming from social media is the only way to prevent a divorce.

Ladies, if your man is bothering you, that’s a sign of a real relationship. Does he: • Leave his socks everywhere? • throw the dishes in the sink for days? • burps like no one is around? • slap you on your butt when he walks by? That means he isn’t hiding who he really is. He knows he’s not perfect, and he’s willing to trust you with that truth. In some twisted way, it’s a sign of respect. Cherish those moments.

Your actions affect other people. How? If a spouse cheats on their mate, and they want a divorce, the children suffer by growing up in a single-parent home. That shapes how our next generation sees relationships forever. If a wife isn’t a good mother, the child becomes starved for attention. He starts acting out. He gets expelled from school. He falls in with the wrong crowd and ends up in a life of crime. That creates a cycle of more babies raised without two parent homes Those children end up needing the system, which raises everyone’s tax dollars. If a man gambles or is a drunk, his family’s resources are spent. The family can’t pay bills. Their credit rating goes down. That means higher rates, and they can’t get ahead. The entire family suffers. If our president makes bad decisions, he starts a war. Inflation goes up. People lose their homes, their family members and jobs. If a child is disobedient to his parents and gets a girl pregnant, the mother becomes a single mother. The parents suffer embarrassment. The child grows up without a father. The point is: Many people think their decisions only affect them. That’s not true. Your decisions affect everyone, and the next generations to come. Nothing happens in a vacuum.