Leadership,Team & Career Coach. Co-host @realjobtalk she/her

San Francisco Bay Area
Joined July 2008
We are so happy to welcome @KatrinaKibben back to @realjobtalk! One of the best things about co-hosting the podcast with @Lizbconsult is the amazing people we have met along the way. Liz and I became instant fans of Kat when they first appeared on the show in 2020 (Episode 38) – at Moss Beach, CA
Welcome back to @realjobtalk @katrinakibben! Kat is a speaker, content creator, advocate, and author extraordinaire! We talk with Kat about their new book This Was All An Accident, and catch up on their van life adventures. Welcome, Kat! realjobtalk.com/92-this-was-… #author
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We love our listener questions! This one was interesting and nuanced!
What do you do when your job and work life are all good? Do you upset the apple cart? Look for something new? Accept things as is? Listen to our latest listener letter from “Restless”.  realjobtalk.com/96-all-is-go… #careeradvice, #career, #realjobtalk, #balance, #jobsearch #podcast
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New episode out today. We love listener questions!
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When evaluating a job, it’s critical to ask questions and really listen to the answers. Are you getting word salad instead of direct answers? This could be an indicator of how the company operates. realjobtalk.com/95-red-flags… #redflag #jobsearch #realjobtalk #mistake #career
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Liz and Kat have never heard of someone going against their gut and then having a positive experience. Have you gone against your gut and had a good experience? Please email us your story- we’re so curious! Realjobtalk @ gmail dot com. rpb.li/cvJ #redflag #jobsearch
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Is your mental health being impacted by staying in a role? If so, you may have to leave even if you don’t have another role. Once you get out of a toxic situation, you may be able to see a clearer path forward. rpb.li/cvJ #redflag #jobsearch #realjobtalk
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Don’t do what we did! Both @lizbconsult and @dailykat have taken roles that went against their guts and learned from the experiences. Listen in to learn about red flags and how to avoid something that isn’t a fit for you.
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Episode 95: Red Flags in the Job Search Process realjobtalk.com/95-red-flags…
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Is it a good idea to leave before your golden handcuffs are off? Maybe. Consider the experience you get managing through the change of an acquisition/event that put the handcuffs on. realjobtalk.com/94-listener-…  #severance #goldenhandcuffs #career #careeradvice #realjobtalk
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Can you use your severance or golden handcuffs to negotiate a bigger compensation package at a new job? It’s complicated, but on @realjobtalk, we believe that your current employer’s incentives to stay are not your future employers’ burden to pay. realjobtalk.com/94-listener-…
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According to @katrinakibben, the key to self acceptance is to figure out when you are happy. We talk about learning about our own happiness, reminding ourselves to be happy, and prioritizing happiness in order to find success. realjobtalk.com/92-this-was-… #authenticity
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It’s just a bunch of people connecting over what it means to ‘people’”- @KatrinaKibben describing their book of letters telling their story of authentically being Kat in This Was All An Accident. Episode UEL realjobtalk.com/92-this-was-… #authenticity #queeratwork #realjobtalk
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With his depth of experience in marketing for e-commerce companies, @robertgatx can evaluate how to tell the company’s story successfully. He can audit and tune up the messaging to make the product shine. realjobtalk.com/91-networkin… #realjobtalk #networking #networkingwithapurpose
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Book recommendation: This Was All An Accident by @katrinakibben Kat’s leadership and empathy is needed in the world today and by sharing their stories they encourage the reader to spread compassion, kindness and support to others (and themselves) too. a.co/d/bQYYtiT – at Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco
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Success is often tied to taking ownership - of your role, career, and journey. For Robert Gilbreath (@robertgatx), that means saying “yes” in early career, trying new things, and owning success and learning. realjobtalk.com/91-networkin… #Careers #networking #networkingwithapurpose
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Welcome to Real Job Talk @robertgatx! Robert talks to us about his career journey as a solopreneur, entrepreneur, and employee and how he treats each role like he owns the company. #realjobtalk #networking #networkingwithapurpose #careerjourney #career #careertips
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Aloha Friday from @jtroyer and me! – at San Mateo, CA
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What should you do if the salary is lower than you want but the job looks amazing? @_KelliRThompson says to have that first conversation and lay it on the table. They might increase the range or you may have to cut ties after that first call. ​​realjobtalk.com/90-advance-y… #career
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“Really successful women know the power of outsourcing.”- @_KelliRThompson.  BOOM! Episode 90: Advance Your Career with Kelli Thompson ​​realjobtalk.com/90-advance-y… #realjobtalk #career, #salarynegotiation #salarytransparency #confidence #realjobtalk #negotiation #jobsearch
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On the 27th straight day of filming “Forrest Gump,” Tom Hanks was tired & worried. During a scene on the famous park bench, Hanks stopped & said to director Bob Zemeckis, “Hey, Bob…is anybody going to care about this movie? I don’t think anybody’s going to care.” Bob replied, “It’s a minefield, Tom. You never know what’s good…It’s a minefield! It’s a goddam minefield! We may be sowing the seeds of our own destruction.” Tom Hanks told this story after he was asked, “When I ask for a memory from your career, what’s the first thing that comes to mind?” He said that what Zemeckis said was true of every movie he’s worked on: “There’s never any guarantee...You do not know if it is going to work out.” Takeaway 1: Hanks is the 5th-most highest-grossing actor of all time. And yet, the stickiest memory of his career is the feeling of uncertainty. Rarer than talent or work ethic, the poet John Keats wrote, is the ability to step into and push through doubts and uncertainties. In 1817, Keats wrote a letter to his brothers to share this exciting realization. “At once it struck me,” Keats wrote, “what quality went to form a Man of Achievement … Negative Capability.” Keats explains that “Negative Capability” is “when a man is capable of being in uncertainties, mysteries, doubts, without any irritable reaching after fact and reason.” Takeaway 2: Those who possess Negative Capability, who can sit with uncertainty, who can spend months or years in the minefield that is working on something while knowing that there is a real possibility no one will care about it—they often possess another quality. They do what they do, not as a means to some end (money, fame, awards, etc.), but for the sake of doing it. When asked about one of his movies that commercially failed, Hanks said, "I loved making that movie. I loved writing it, I loved being with it. I love all the people in it." As Ryan Holiday once told me, "The work has to be the win." You control the effort, he says, not the results. "So ultimately, you have to love doing it. You have to get to a place where doing the work is the win and everything else is extra.” - - - “Life is like a box of chocolates: you never know what you're going to get.” — Forrest Gump Follow @bpoppenheimer for more content like this!
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