kei.

hi! i came across this thread on my tl, and i thought i'd add my two cents to what feels like a discussion. i like to think that kei is merely stating an observation that the community feels like a dating site and not an rp community. no one said anything about it being harmful.

it's not about whether or not you're hurting or disturbing a person/s (which is a terrible argument and goes past the point being raised). it's just the type of culture that the community popularizes. rarely do we see plottings or actual roleplaying being done anymore.

it is just an observation that people tend to put finding a significant other as the forefront of their plans, and good for them if they're able to find someone! however, it shouldn't be the only goal people should have as roleplayers or writers.