Ben Affleck Reveals He’s Tired Of Having S(e)x At His Age. “It’s a Lot of Work, Especially If You Want to Do a Good Job” When the interviewer suggested young people aren’t having much s*x these days, Ben Affleck had a surprisingly relatable response. “I’m pretty old. I was having sex in my day.” The interviewer asked if that meant he wasn’t having s(e)x anymore. “No, because now I’m tired.” Then Affleck delivered the line that made the conversation even funnier: “And s*x is a lot of work. Especially if you want to do a good job.”