Creator of The First-Generation Stay-At-Home-Mom and Classically Abby. Trad-mother. Wife of @RothThePatriot.

Joined January 2019
Abby Roth retweeted
If you've noticed a lot of conservatives contradicting things they used to say or stand for, it's because they've been sitting around thinking, "I'll lose my audience if I don't go where I see them heading." And that, to their shame, determines what they say next.
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“ From their first months, babies are designed to form deep attachments to the few people closest to them—those who know them best and respond sensitively and consistently across thousands of small daily exchanges. Within these first relationships, a child's security, sense of self, and capacity to trust and connect with others are established, forming the foundation for lifelong well-being.”
"There’s a glaring gap in the case for expanding child care: what’s best for young children—the ones with the most at stake, whom no one is actually discussing." ifstudies.org/blog/child-car… @FamStudies
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Abby Roth retweeted
"There’s a glaring gap in the case for expanding child care: what’s best for young children—the ones with the most at stake, whom no one is actually discussing." ifstudies.org/blog/child-car… @FamStudies
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The data shows moms working part-time, FT or staying home doesn't much move the needle re: marital happiness today. But a husband being employed full-time does--it's tied to happier wives & more stable marriages. This is one reason we should be doing a better job of preparing young men to be reliable breadwinners. Part of my conversation w/ @carinemhajjar @KateAndrs washingtonpost.com/opinions/… @wapo @AEI
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Abby Roth retweeted
I feel this.
I deeply resent that AI has forced me to eliminate em dashes from my writing for fear of signaling slop
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Abby Roth retweeted
America already made daylight saving time permanent once. In December 1973, 79% of Americans supported it and Nixon signed it into law. By February 1974, eight weeks into the experiment, support had collapsed to 42%. The policy never changed. Winter arrived. Sunrise in Washington DC came at 8:27am. Kids left for school in total darkness, carrying flashlights and wearing reflective tape. When Congress moved to repeal, members cited the deaths of eight Florida schoolchildren in the first weeks of the change. The energy case collapsed too. The whole point was the oil embargo, and the Department of Transportation concluded the fuel savings were too small to matter. Ten months after signing it, Congress repealed it and Ford put the country back on standard time. There's a mechanism that makes this cycle repeat: permanent DST is only ever voted on when the sun is up. Polls run in the abstract, votes happen in warm months, and the benefit, a free hour of evening light, is easy to imagine year-round. The cost is concentrated in about 10 weeks of dark winter mornings and only becomes real after implementation. So the policy polls beautifully right up until January. Today's vote happened in July. The 1974 law passed in December, right before the exact winter that killed it. If this clears the Senate, the first real test arrives in January 2027, when sunrise in Indianapolis comes after 9am. Sleep researchers have watched this loop for 50 years, which is why the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, the AMA, and the National Sleep Foundation all back the opposite reform, permanent standard time. Congress just picked the one version of clock reform America has already tried, hated, and repealed.
Polymarket
@PolymarketJul 14
BREAKING: House votes 308-117 to make daylight saving time permanent, sending the bill to the Senate.
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Abby Roth retweeted
It's the phones. It's the phones for a hundred reasons. Here are a few: 1) Male consumption of porn reduces marriage (for like 10 reasons) 2) Because of time-wasting college kids and 20-somethings just socialize less, reducing marriage. 3) The dating apps ruin dating (for 10 reasons) 4) Social media gives us a false anthropology, which makes us too individualistic and too averse to connection and commitment. 5) The phones make us sad and make us hate ourselves. If we hate ourselves we don't want more of us.
Sorry in advance, those of us on Team It’s the Phones are going to be a little insufferable today “Overall, the diffusion of the iPhone explains 33–52% of the decline in the general fertility rate among women aged 15–44”
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I've talked about this for a long time. "Women working" has never been a new thing. The 1950s homemaker was an aberration. What is new is women working OUTSIDE the home for a different man. This was stuff generally only tolerated by the lower classes in the form of maids etc. Wives always did their part on the family farm or business historically. They had different jobs than the men, but they did more than raise kids. This is one of the reasons I've never been a big fan of the phrase "retiring your wife." Smart women get bored and want to do more than menial tasks to feel useful. It's much wiser for men to try to simply bring them back under their roof, leverage their mind and energy in more entrepreneurial ways for the family.
The premise behind “trad wife” culture is a myth, an evolutionary psychologist has warned. Dr Steve Stewart-Williams, an expert in the field of nature versus nurture, said that women have always worked, and the idea that historically they stayed at home raising the children and cooking was inaccurate. 🔗: telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/05…
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Kylie Ora Lobell
@kylieoralobellMay 26
“Enact the role of strong Jew, and you will become a strong Jew.” Jacob William Roth (@RothThePatriot), grew up in New York with a Jewish father and a mother who had a Reform conversion. He was a libertarian atheist with a very negative world view. He thought he knew it all. Then, he began to study the works of Thomas Sowell, Jordan Peterson, and other scholars who were not Jewish... and it ultimately led him back to Judaism. In college, Jacob was inspired by what he was learning and Judaism and decided to do a formal conversion. During the process, he met @classicallyabby, who grew up observant. They fell in love after spending time together on a road trip, and Jacob completed his conversion before they got married. Today, Jacob is a proud Orthodox Jew, husband, father, powerhouse attorney, and advocate for the Jewish community. He deals with antisemitism on a regular basis (his brother is Ben Shapiro, after all, and they target him and Ben's sister, Abby, constantly), but he isn't afraid to stand up for what he believes in. My conversation with Jacob was fascinating, enlightening, and inspiring. All the things! Take a listen to the full episode. Link below.
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Don't tell me there hasn't been a war on femininity, just look at living rooms in the 1980s and 90s vs now. Women used to design lovely, cozy rooms that in no way looked like the workplace, museums or medical offices. Men were grateful, though they'd never pick these designs themselves. Now? Homes are supposed to look like sterile hellscapes that offer no escape, no nurturing comfort. Everything is flattened, it all looks the same and there's no unique style or special touch to any of it. That 3rd house? Could be a podcast set, a waiting room, but not the warm comfort women used to be proud to put together.
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Rachel Wilson
@Rach4PatriarchyApr 20
Can we please for the love of God and all that is holy (literally) stop talking about what grown women want and start talking about what children need? Anytime we have a discussion about motherhood, it’s about the wants of an adult woman and never about the needs of children.
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This is so true and nobody talks about it honestly. Breastfeeding hurts in the first two weeks for most women, even with a perfect latch. Your nipples are not used to that level of friction and suction and they need time to toughen up. I have heard moms with 4+ kids say it still hurts at the beginning with every single baby and then goes away. The standard advice that "breastfeeding should never hurt if the latch is correct" makes women think something is wrong when the pain is actually a normal part of the adjustment. Yes, a bad latch can cause pain. But so can a brand new nipple being used 10+ times a day for the first time. Those are two very different things and they get lumped together in a way that confuses new moms and sometimes causes them to give up early. It gets better. Usually by week 2 or 3 the pain fades. Push through those first couple weeks if you can.
So one of the things they always say about breastfeeding is it should never hurt...but after 2 babies those first 2 weeks or so hurt? It goes away and there aren't any signs of poor latch but like my nipples kinda just hurt I think for hormonal reasons. There must be nuance to the pain that no is explaining
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Rachel Wilson
@Rach4PatriarchyApr 5
Motherhood is a full-time job. Especially with children under five. Even more so with babies under two. It requires your attention 24/7 no matter how badly people want this not to be the case. If you want to choose your job and outsource motherhood, just be honest about it.
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If you've never had a kid it's almost impossible to understand this, but there is nothing you can offer me that's better than pushing my three year old daughter in a swing at the park just before lunchtime and then swinging through the McDonalds drive thru to grab a Happy Meal and then stopping at the gas station to get a slurpee and some M&Ms, because why not, and pretending to race the other cars on the way home just to make her laugh and all the while she's asking questions about everything she sees and I'm smiling to myself because it's forcing me to come to terms with the fact I don't know how to explain even the most basic fundamentals of life. And I like that. I like feeling like the world still contains infinitudes as of yet unknown to me. I used to think it was cope when parents talked about this, because I was stupid and I wanted to enjoy my parties and my drugs and my affairs and my long nights out and my wine and my time to myself and my melodramatic crying fits and my hallucinations and my self-destructive spirals and the fact I had nobody to answer to. The happiness you get from raising a child is not the cheap dopamine hit of an easy pleasure, bought and paid for. It's the kind of happiness that you only get from choosing to undertake an adventure, and the colossal responsibility that comes with it, so that in moments stripped away, inch by inch, the new world you decided to brave and explore is revealed to you.
🤝 Paid partnership
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Abby Roth retweeted
Replying to @MattWalshBlog
The correct answer is that you should bring your loud and do your best to make him be less loud.
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Matt Walsh
@MattWalshBlogMar 3
It’s not just nostalgia. This was our childhood and it’s gone now. As a parent you can, through great effort, create the conditions for some version of this for your own children today. But the problem is that most of the other kids are screen addicted zombies who don’t really want to run around outside until the streetlights turn on. So an energetic, free spirited kid who’d rather climb a tree than stare at a screen ends up being kind of isolated. 30 years ago he’d have been the most popular kid in the neighborhood. Now the other kids in the neighborhood are home with the screen and he’s climbing the tree by himself.
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Abby Roth retweeted
Every child you add makes a many more connections for the entire family. The graph of love is not a bunch of arrows pointing only to mom. They will all have a long childhood of playing together. (n(n-1)/2 more connections to be exact)
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You know around three months old, when the baby starts loving you back? Absolutely incredible.
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A woman approached me at Costco today with my 3 children and said “you look as stupid as I did” and after I gave her a puzzled look she said “I had 3 kids close together just like you. It’s better when they are older!” Like ok lady speak for yourself we are balling out about to get hotdogs. We have eaten tons of the little taste tester portions of protein brownie bites and fried chicken. I let my son get pirates booty. We just left the library and have new books to read when we get home. We are going to listen to ocean eyes by owlcity on the drive back. We are pretending the cart is a race car
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When I didn’t have kids, I had endless time and extra money, and somehow I still did nothing meaningful with either. It’s strange how easy it is to coast when the only person you’re responsible for is yourself. There’s no urgency. No pressure to grow. You can drift for years. But children change all of this. The choices we make become more important, because it affects them. They force us to think beyond the next five minutes. We suddenly care about becoming someone stronger, more disciplined, harder working, and it’s because someone else is counting on us now. We all think freedom comes from living for ourselves, but the real push, the real growth, only happens when our lives are tied to someone outside of us. Kids make us better because they make us accountable. They pull us out of the shallow orbit of our own wants and into something that actually matters.
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