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Last night I was having so much fun at the club, dancing, getting lit.. and my girl turns to me and says “I can see in your eyes you’re sad” and I wonder how many other people notice
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I could totally get into a serious and committed relationship right now but that might get in the way of me uplifting tinashe
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teaching denis johnson's car-crash while hitchhiking tomorrow. i will forever be awed by this paragraph. goosebumps every time
this somehow feels like an apt metaphor for the way my brain works (repetitive, Minnesotan, difficult to explain)
don’t get me wrong I am 1000% certain I am on the right path. but some days I am like man… did I really get sober to be this constipated and depressed
a little stunned that the Mountain Goats’ Tallahassee has become my comfort album… like why am I listening to “No Children” in order to self-regulate 🤔
stuck inside + heedlessly vaping through a nasty case of Covid but grateful to celebrate another milestone today 🥳
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I like that people talk in terms of emotional "regulation" now because the screendamaged yuppie jargon mis-identified as "therapy speak" is better understood as the cultivation of a total bureaucracy of the heart and at least "regulation" makes that explicit
googling “MJ Lenderman new girlfriend” instead of finishing the onerous soul-frying step work that will drag me through the depths of hell and leave me simultaneously incinerated and born anew
wept while reading this in a downtown Brooklyn Sweetgreen lmao. life is complicated, work whomps, I might get cyclosporiasis from my chicken pesto parm… every day is still a gift and I’m fucking grateful 🥲
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she’s 100% right. EDs, OCD, and anxiety all function as a system of rules/beliefs that serve to give you power in a society or situation in which you feel powerless. And she’s also right that if you believe you’re extricating yourself from the male gaze, you’re sorely mistaken.





























